Fuck ass tops

Why are all the masochist or any guy with ANY personality or uniqueness to them all tops these days??? Every time I go searching for masochists, or a yaoi where one of them is kinda of bratty/bitchy ITS ALWAYS THE TOP. Ughhh man I’d feel like more yaoi authors would put these personality’s on the bottom but they never doooo. If anybody has any recs like this pls lmk