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for context, i recently broke things off with my situationship cause he would do stuff that just didn’t sit right with me. now as much as i don’t want to glaze him, my friends keep making jokes and comments about how i shouldn’t have done that cause he’s gonna find someone “better” than me etcetc. they didn’t say that explicitly but that’s what they were implying lol so i did a bit of thinking and i was like ykw maybe we can work something out, hes not perfect and so was i. so last night, when i was planning on talking to him at the party, he was already WITH another girl so naturally i confronted him cause it hasn’t even been a week since i decided to cut him off and we got into a whole ass argument that my friends had to break off. it was really embarrassing so i asked my friends if we could go home and fortunately they agreed. anyway i guess where im going with this is, should i even bother patching things up with him still? cause i lowkey don’t want to but my friends have been insisting that i do it.
Girl omg, first of all knock some sense into your friends, second of all man who switches too fast dont deserve any VALIDATION, just because friends are messing with your brain doesn’t mean he was all that. 2 reply
u should as YOURSELF if that's what u rlly want or not. Do YOU want him back? Or is it that your friends kinda influenced that idea and that's why you wanna do it. If you're saying you ''lowkey don't wanna do it'' then don't , js go and continue living like before. 1 reply
live a life where u don’t gaf!!!!! trust me. when u take a step back n literally see how these things srsly don’t matter in the grand scheme of things… u just stop giving a fuck fr. i used to be u n when i started seeing how much id type i was like… this shit rlly doesn’t matter. i promise u girl, forget abt allat n move on n live ur life...... reply
If you don't feel good about doing or not doing something, and someone else keeps trying to pressure you into it, they either do not have a good enough idea of where you're coming from (and that requires it's own sit-down convo with them) or they're ignoring your needs/wants and are not acting in your best interest.
Ignore the whole Guy involved ...... reply
no do not patch up something with a person who doesn’t put up the effort for you. Protect your peace and drop the bum
Fyi your friends are hella weird for saying you should patch stuff up with him reply
