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Girlies HELP!!
Sooo, I had this awkward situation the other day.
My bestie got a boyfriend (he’s not local, he’s from another country), and she introduced him to us. We were mostly chatting together, and my friend started talking about her cheating ex. I have a weird relationship with men—I usually say I don’t fw them. Also, jokes about men (and literally anything) aren’t new for us; we joke like that all the time.
While we were talking, I said, “That’s why I hate men,” and my bestie’s boyfriend got offended. It wasn’t targeted at him—it was about my friend’s cheating ex and, in general, about creeps. Then my bestie asked me, “Can you not say that anymore?”
Of course, I explained that it wasn’t targeted and that it’s just my opinion. I mean, when you’re throwing slurs around every day as a joke, you shouldn’t get offended by something like that. He said he just wanted to make a good impression, which is understandable, but it still wasn’t directed at him.
Now I feel awkward. I apologized (which I normally wouldn’t do—I don’t think it’s that deep), but still… I don’t know. When you spend most of your time around racist memes and stuff like that, it’s hard to believe something like this would be that offensive to you.
girl does he actually throw slurs and watch racist memes???? that's enough of a sign that asshole is not worth it....if he's getting so worked up about calling out creeps and cheaters instead of comforting his gf and agreeing w them then hell nah respectfully he's a little bitch. try to distance yourself from him and try to be a little attentive of...... 2 reply
any man who gets offended by "i hate men" or "men are trash" are NOT IT. if men go, "i hate women!" which they DO ALL THE FRICKING TIME, i wont even have a reaction bc i know it's more about his frustrations (like, who tf cares about men?) and not about women. men in my country learned a new word, "alimony" and are running with it ALL THE TIME now....... reply
wait wait wait pause he throws slurs (unless its ones that they are themselves then naw it aint okay) around "jokingly" (allegedly) and gets offended by you saying i hate men? oh! okay.. wait wait wait racist memes too? oh! and the gf is just turning a blind eye??? or is she also.. yk what im petty im so petty id drop all of them!
Yk whats sad w...... reply
