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Is this a dick move?
Is it unreasonable to ask a partner to have regular tests (like for sexually transmitted diseases and such) done when you’re in a committed relationship?
I trust them but I feel like this is something mandatory? Like a prenuptial agreement kinda thing. Or am I wrong to want that?
I think it's normal at the beginning of a relationship to see their test results but once you're exclusive, most people stop bringing it up. Honestly I haven't heard of any couples I know who do this but with that being said, if it is something that would make you comfortable, it is not an unreasonable request. Ultimately, it is up to you to define...... reply
Are y'all in a open relationship or something??? If not yes it weird you're basically constantly accusing them of cheating on you. Sounds like you just don't trust them at all reply
No it is not unreasonable wanting to be safe. Trust like this is built over years and it's completely okay to be vary about. Infact, it should be mandatory lmao, would prevent a lot of headache for a lot of people. reply
Unless they have a history of sleeping with a bunch of people, I'd say it's pretty offensive to ask that of them. If it's a monogamous relationship, there's not really a reason to ask. If you're in an open or poly relationship, then I could understand.
Do you yourself also get regularly tested? reply
Unless you're in an open relationship or have been dating for like just a few months up to a year... No, it's completely normal— NOT WRONG to ask that since it's understandable you'd still have trust issues or so-so if you have had experiences with past relationships involving infidelity and stuff. But I suggest not keeping it up once your relati...... reply
If y'all are in an open relationship then I don't see any problem but if not?? I think you should only ask once cus like sex diseases don't pop randomly. Sounds like you don't trust them if you're fully educated on how sex diseases works.... reply