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so this is about a situation, i want to hear ur opinion
so, my friend and i were in Hackathon project. from our batch we stayed untill the last step but the last requirement for the certificate was submitting a project with group of 3 and there were 2 senior and me, my friend. the group number couldn't exceed more than 3 or less. so, the guide was telling the 2 senior to contact us individually. so, i told the senior that we will stay together and if possible contacting the authorities to see if group of 4 is allowed, and gave both my and my friends info. before giving i texted my frnd asking whether she got the seniors msg, she asked what msg and i told her about it she didn't respond ( she has a child, so she could be busy or something). after sometime, i replied to the senior and gave her both our info. my friend was taken in the group and i wasn't since there weren't any room left. however, no one informed me, not the senior and nor the teacher, she is the guide. my frnd after a few hours calls me and asks if i accepted invite, i ask which one she told me she accepted it. she can literally see that i m not in the group. anyway, she also tells the teacher and senior that I wasn't included at night about. obviously they couldn't do anything. i was just hurt that they didn't inform me that i will be excluded. i m also avoiding talking to frnd for now, cause she wasn't in the wrong, trying to avoid negative emotions, i m just feeling like it was waste of time and a bit hurt.its just i told her about everything, that senior mged, what should we do, stick together or drop out, but that day she didn't even tell me that she received invite and i m waiting like a fool until later. but whatever i m just overthinking. just wanted to get this off of my chest.
Honestly, I think you’re hurt because you kept her updated about everything, but she didn’t do the same for you. Even if she didn’t mean anything bad, being left waiting without knowing you were excluded would make anyone feel sad. You’re not overthinking it, your feelings are valid.
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