Anyone here got a doormat friend? I literally cannot stand it anymore.
Short story short, I have a friend who has a crush on this dude and omfg... This dude is literally so fucking horrible. Not only that, she's like 18, and he's around 14 or 15. No matter what u say to her, she never gets it to her head that he's horrible AND THAT ITS JUST NOT RIGHT. It's not confirmed that she has a crush on him, but I could just tellllllllll... Cuz mind u, this guy is so racist(she's black) and she always forgives him. Till now, I didn't even know she still talked with this dude till I saw them together. I'm genuinely pissed, it's like all that talk I had with her is nothing.
Uhh, does she understand that she’s awful as well for liking an entire CHILD? Whether or not he’s horrible, that shouldn’t be the biggest problem here. If you’re trying to get her to wake tf up, it should be more about her and not him. I’m not saying he’s innocent or anything, but she’s a full-on predator if she’s 18 and doing that shit. Not trying to downplay the racism or whatever’s up with him, but wtaf is wrong with her?
No, again it's not confirmed that she likes him romantically. It's rlly just what my instincts r telling me. That's why I wasn't focused on that, it's more like she has this weird attachment to him.
And yes, I've alrdy hinted it to her but she just dodges and says they're not friends anymore.
No, again it's not confirmed that she likes him romantically. It's rlly just what my instincts r telling me. That's why I wasn't focused on that, it's more like she has this weird attachment to him. And yes, I'... YoBologna
Overlooked the not confirmed part, but yeah she just sounds delusional or something…either way it’s weird. Does she think she can “change him” or something? Idk, but I know people that refuse to listen to anyone’s input/opinion and even slightly consider if they’re ever in the wrong. Makes me want to rip my hair out
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Uhh, does she understand that she’s awful as well for liking an entire CHILD? Whether or not he’s horrible, that shouldn’t be the biggest problem here. If you’re trying to get her to wake tf up, it should be more about her and not him. I’m not saying he’s innocent or anything, but she’s a full-on predator if she’s 18 and doing that shit. Not trying to downplay the racism or whatever’s up with him, but wtaf is wrong with her?
No, again it's not confirmed that she likes him romantically. It's rlly just what my instincts r telling me. That's why I wasn't focused on that, it's more like she has this weird attachment to him.
And yes, I've alrdy hinted it to her but she just dodges and says they're not friends anymore.
Overlooked the not confirmed part, but yeah she just sounds delusional or something…either way it’s weird. Does she think she can “change him” or something? Idk, but I know people that refuse to listen to anyone’s input/opinion and even slightly consider if they’re ever in the wrong. Makes me want to rip my hair out