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Am I the problem..?
I was in a trio and we got saperated after we went to college, we talked and made time for eachother but then it got to a point where I was the only one asking them to meet up or atleast voice call in the gc. They always said they were busy and yeah it gets busy I understand, but it gets to a point.... One time I asked her if we could just call casually and she said she had an assignment so I got kinda mad and asked her if she's ever gonna put an effort to meet up (context: she never made time for us even before college and didn't even try to hang out with me and the other person) She said that I can think whatever I want So I just said "ok if you're always busy I'll just gtfo" and blocked both of them on every single social media platform. What frustrated me the most was that my ex, MY EX. texted me saying I should talk to them because they're not doing well. I actually left him on good terms and we were friends, he asked me and I told him CASUALLY that I'm not talking to them anymore and he does this shit. as much as I don't care I hate the fact he even has nicknames for my ex friends, like...... Idk I feel like the bad guy now I literally don't know what to do
ngl, I might be one of those friends who seem to always not make it to the function or purposely give my friends time.
I had friends I've been with since grade school but in hs, I was going through a rough time and didn't want the others to find out, more so, I didn't want to burden them with my baggages when they might also be going through it un...... reply
Okay lets calm down first, alr? In my opinion, this isn't your fault. I know how it feels to be like the only friend who actually WANTS to keep the friendship..
when you decided to like actually open up she did not reply very well and it came out very rude. I get that college is a huge thing and all but you def cannot be busy ALL the time. She coul...... reply
