Are u underappreciated?

Put this here cus i wanted to ask aswell if im weird for feeling like this, but basically today some ppl were making what was supposed to be like some sort of surprise card or smth for my bday in a few days but yk what while some ppl were actually doing a good job hiding it some ppl were js so insanely disappointing like they litch js saw me and told me and showed me a piece they had to rip off bcs some dude who hasn't matured yet for some reason at his big age wrote some weird shit. Like who tf does that?? And i used to like this guy. He used to be sweet now he js thinks hes cool for being rude. The worst part was this was not even my friends' idea it was my mums and that sounds so pathetic cus I've been putting so much effort into my friends and the only example of what i get in return is some lousy card. U might say im acting spoiled for calling it lousy but srsly it's js on some plain paper nothjng else its so empty and bare and im js so disappointed even tho i should be grateful. My bday celebration isn't even for me atp they planned it for their own happiness no one asked me where i wanted to go. I actually felt so loved umtil i realised my friends js don't care that much and even tho I've literally spilt my heart out to them they don't know me at all. So I want to hear your experiences, tell me all abt how u coped or smth cus rn i feel so pathetic and js sad.