how to stop cringing

I'm watching prosecutor's proposal rn and I feel so homophobic everytime the bl elements appear I'd look away or close my eyes, then I'd feel homophobic for cringing lmfao
but /gen how do ppl watch K-drama without cringing. not just the bl but also the straight one.
but I don't feel cringe when watching Hell is Other People and whatever is happening between Yim si wan and Lee dong Wook in that show