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Jokes or harassment?
As an adult I love dirty jokes, it's funny and I love sharing it withy friends. But it feels different when a man doing dirty jokes with me for flirting, it feels cringe and really makes me uncomfortable. Then I realized the pattern, the jokes I'm sharing with my friends are pure humor. Something that makes you laugh when you heard it. But the other one is pure harassment, and then they told me it's only a joke. They're joking about wanting to Impr*gnatee or some shit, about my body and so. But they got mad when I'm offended and just told me that they're joking?
whether or not someone thinks something is a joke is irrelevant.
if the jokes make you uncomfortable they should respectfully stop it.
I don't think anyone can truly know if they really didn't mean any harm and just lack tact, but if you find it uncomfortable and they get pissed, maybe throw them under a bus to get squashed.
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