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I think I’m gonna end things
No I’m not talking about my life, I’m talking about my relationship. All of a sudden my boyfriend(or ex now) just ghosted me and it’s been two days since we last talked and I need outside perspective to see if I’m crazy to think that this relationship is over. Our last conversation was us just flirting which is what we usually do then next thing I know he’s no longer answering my texts hell he hasn’t even read them!!! And I’m upset, I’ve legit cried myself to sleep last night and I’m currently fucking crying typing this and I’m so fucking upset. I’ve been giving him excuses to myself about how he’s probably busy or that he’ll see them, but two whole ass days and STILL no contact?? It’s over isn’t it… All I really want to know is wtf did I do to be treated like this?? Cause I wouldn’t even have done this to him and I’m an asshole. I’m just going to try and distract myself with work to stop me from crying over this stupid stuff…
I'm gonna be honest with you I don't think it's worth breaking up, like of course it's your choice and you do you girl, but I've gone no-contact with my bf for longer than that, you should try calling him / his family first to see if something is wrong, maybe he's struggling with something you don't know about. this is not to empathize with him but...... 1 reply
I obviously don't know much details about your relationship but from this single context i think u should not break up. You are hurt nd we cant really think straight when we are so overwhelmed. You should calm down a lil first. Ofc what he did is NOT okay and hold him accountable for that. If this behaviour continues or is a continuous thing then u...... reply
So I totally get the feeling, but there's a big possibility that whatever's causing his silence has nothing to do with you. Like you mentioned, he could be busy - though yeah, obviously if that were the case he could've/should've just let you know.
I don't have full context - like if your relationship is long distance, or if you've seen him active...... reply
