Getting pulled out of a webtoon bc of big d

Does anyone else get bothered when reading BL and suddenly the ML shows their D and it's the size of a forearm plus fist.
like, the proportions of the characters are semi realistic everywhere else BUT at their dihh. I feel these artists want to make exaggerated proportions but are afraid to commit.
Maybe I'm just picky so idk, just wanted to complain a little at the court of micro claims.