how can i make myself like people i hate?

my friend… actually can i even call her a friend when i hate her? only friends with her because my dad threatened to destroy all my stuff if i stopped being her friend. anyway. she’s really stupid and awful at communicating, she will tell me she’s available at a certain time only for her to be a fucking moron that mixes up times and will actively lie to me on when she’s available or not, and she’s always 30 minutes late to everything. she leaves trash everywhere and is filthy even when i tell her i don’t like how she leaves trash all over my room. she constantly sexualizes me and my body and it makes me feel gross, and she drives recklessly whenever im in a car w her…. she always humiliates me in public and she can’t take any criticism. im so tired dealing with her and being her friend. what do i do…? i WANT to find it in my heart to like her but any time i try she fucks it up and makes me hate her more… how can i stop hating her guts and actually like her?