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How to know if someones love bombing ?
Just met this dude like 2 days ago and he is being hyper attentive, nice, voice messaging and wanting to call n all. And sending me reels on instgram where im suppose to rate him to specific qs/first impression and stuff. Chat wat do i do lowkey do Mind u i only wn be friends n this seems veryyyyyyy sus lol
tell him you're uncomfortable and to slow down a bit + explain you only wanna be friends.
if he decides to fuck off, he's trying to get a lay.
if he slows down, maybe he's just a dumbass. reply
tell him you only want to be friends and see how he reacts. If his reaction is to lash out, call you degrading names and say he wasn’t even interested in you in the first place, not message you for a little while, and then begin messaging you again telling you he’s sorry and he didn’t mean any of that stuff and bombarding you with apologies a...... reply
I dunno for me those are typical things you can expect if someone is into you. Simply cause they want to be closer. Maybe it's just me tho. Maybe be clear that you just want to be friends and you don't like this extra attention he was showing 2 reply
I mean, he's definitely interested in you if that's what you're talking about. If you think he's a creep then you can either slow your replies until he backs off or lay cards down. He might not realize he's being too much but I'm always team trust your gut with stuff like this. reply
