i’m a control freak, no surprises there, already knew that cause i’ve been in therapy for the past 10 years and it’s been one of the main points of focus, plus i’m also autistic and have ocd so it’s REALLY no surprise that i'm a control freak, i have been told by basically everyone i've ever lived with that i am an incredibly difficult pe...... reply
tell him you only want to be friends and see how he reacts. If his reaction is to lash out, call you degrading names and say he wasn’t even interested in you in the first place, not message you for a little while, and then begin messaging you again telling you he’s sorry and he didn’t mean any of that stuff and bombarding you with apologies a...... reply
100% a cat, the people around me in my life, even the ones who aren’t very close to me but have known me for a long time, like my mum’s friends of over a decade, all agree that in personality, behaviour, and temperament, i am very cat-like, and half of my mum’s long time friends are psychologists and psychiatrists and have known me since i wa...... reply
girl i’m sorry but you need to break up with him, relationships are a 2 way street, it’s an equal amount of give and take for both people, both people work to make the other feel seen, heard, loved, comforted, and supported, and work through all problems together, that is what a loving and healthy relationship where both people actually care ab...... 1 reply