addictedtoyaoi's answer (15)

ikr it’s SOOOO annoying and stupid, that’s like saying “i absolutely despise hot weather and being hot” but actively choosing to live in the fucking sahara desert even though you more than have the choice and means to leave and move to somewhere else that isn’t hot!!! it’s especially annoying to see as a lesbian with more than my fair ......   reply

i was the same way for many years because of my abusive, manipulative biological father, but through therapy and men who are actually, genuinely good coming into my life in the form of my stepdad and my brother in law, i have learned that there are actually men out there who are genuinely good and kind and don’t want to do any harm and try their ......   reply

tell him you only want to be friends and see how he reacts. If his reaction is to lash out, call you degrading names and say he wasn’t even interested in you in the first place, not message you for a little while, and then begin messaging you again telling you he’s sorry and he didn’t mean any of that stuff and bombarding you with apologies a......   reply

girl i’m sorry but you need to break up with him, relationships are a 2 way street, it’s an equal amount of give and take for both people, both people work to make the other feel seen, heard, loved, comforted, and supported, and work through all problems together, that is what a loving and healthy relationship where both people actually care ab......   1 reply

i’m about to finish my course to become a florist, it’s certainly not the path i saw myself going down as a kid, because growing up with 2 university educated parents (they literally met because they were doing the same degree and were in the same year at university, both graduated and then my mum went on to medical school and graduated that wi......   reply

it’s my birthday! i’m officially 25, when did this happen!   2 reply

first things first, enjoy how much it is to masturbate compared to having a vagina, cause masturbating and also learning how to masturbate when you’re born with a dick is like playing tic tac toe compared to the goddamn fucking 4D chess that is trying to figure out how to masturbate when you’re born with a vagina, like oh my fucking god that sh......   reply

absolute fucking shit, that’s what it’s like, my biological father was an abusive, narcissistic, psychopath (like actually, legit, even his psychiatrist admitted he was a narcissist and showed some psychopathic tendencies after my biological father killed himself and everyone close to him was interviewed because the way he killed himself was ve......   1 reply

i’m a control freak, no surprises there, already knew that cause i’ve been in therapy for the past 10 years and it’s been one of the main points of focus, plus i’m also autistic and have ocd so it’s REALLY no surprise that i'm a control freak, i have been told by basically everyone i've ever lived with that i am an incredibly difficult pe......   reply

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, once you have the chance to move out of their home and are financially independent from their I HIGHLY encourage you go low contact with them because they sound like they will ALWAYS feel like they are entitled to know everything that is going on in your private life without any regard for your wishes or r......   1 reply

100% a cat, the people around me in my life, even the ones who aren’t very close to me but have known me for a long time, like my mum’s friends of over a decade, all agree that in personality, behaviour, and temperament, i am very cat-like, and half of my mum’s long time friends are psychologists and psychiatrists and have known me since i wa......   reply

my type in women (I am a lesbian so I only have a type for women) is a woman who is either my height or taller (but preferably taller, and I’m already rather tall, 176cm or 5’9”, so finding queer women who are taller than me is hard), has a fairly androgynous look and style but leans slightly more towards the femme side of androgynous, has a ......   reply

honestly can’t remember exactly what turned me into a fujoshi, but i do remember being nearly 14 and severely depressed, I stayed holed up in my room when I wasn’t at school and would immediately shut myself in my room as soon as i got home from school, and was watching a fuck ton of anime and this was also the same time that my older sister ca......   reply

thankfully i’ve never been caught reading any manga (or other illustrated yaoi like manhwa, webtoons, etc) because i extra cautious and sneaky like a ninja, always checking behind me if i read in public places and will try my best to make sure i only read anything graphic when my back is against a wall and people can’t see my phone screen unles......   reply

while it’s still english, so still the same language, in Australia we call it fairy floss, not sure why we call it that but i like it, though i am 99.99% sure we get the floss part from the British who call it candy floss, no idea where we got the idea for the fairy part (maybe because of the colour and the fact that it’s most commonly a thing ......   1 reply