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How did you all come to term with your sexuality ?
I am religious. And I have been in denial for years that I like both girls and boys sexually. I don't know emotionally since I have never been truly in love. I did have crushes here and there on boys but my first wet dream was with a girl so I am 80% sure I am Bi. I know if I ever fell in love with a girl I am f*cked.
I never really cared for romance, only friendships, and one day it clicked I had some feelings of romantic love for some of my same sex friends (after reviewing my past behavior) I forced(?) myself to feel bad about it during a religious ceremony, because I have the toxic trait of not caring enough about things, but it honestly just made me feel be...... reply
I never denied liking women but was never truly out because my parents are homophobic.. i considered myself a lesbian for a long time no big revelation it js happened progressively , I lwk had a very homoerotic friendship with my best friend at the time and that shit change my life for ever
I tried (?) being with guys people would set me up cuz im...... reply
Im 19, turning 20 this year. Gay man, somewhere in the asexual spectrum, but not too invested to find out/put a label on it.
I grew up in a family with religious values, but not strictly religious per se. Like we would go to church every now and then and we dont usually pray before eating type of religiosity.
Being gay or being some form of quee...... reply
It was kind of like a sudden revelation, like a puzzlement solved or something clicking and making sense. I wouldn't say I was distressed in the same way though. I had this indifference to my gender since way back (and i still do; they call it Apagender / Agender). It never became a major conflict partly because I didn't feel it growing up or it wa...... reply
i knew i liked girls before i even knew what gay and lesbian was so it kinda just stuck with me and i had no problem with it until suddenly everyone was homophobic at skl so i kinda was ashamed of it for a couple years but now i couldnt rlly gaf anymore reply
first i thought i was lesbian cuz i didnt like guys then bisexual cuz i realized that i feel the same with everybody so it made me come to terms with that im asexual and aromantic lol reply
Accepting your queer sexuality is not anything different from accepting your any other _perceived_ flaw... You just need to work on accepting yourself as a whole, and suddenly you will start thinking about yourself differently in all kinds of ways, and you will stop perceiving your future as bleak and unpromising. your whole life is going to change reply
