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How did you all come to term with your sexuality ?
I am religious. And I have been in denial for years that I like both girls and boys sexually. I don't know emotionally since I have never been truly in love. I did have crushes here and there on boys but my first wet dream was with a girl so I am 80% sure I am Bi. I know if I ever fell in love with a girl I am f*cked.
Im 19, turning 20 this year. Gay man, somewhere in the asexual spectrum, but not too invested to find out/put a label on it.
I grew up in a family with religious values, but not strictly religious per se. Like we would go to church every now and then and we dont usually pray before eating type of religiosity.
Being gay or being some form of quee...... reply
I never really cared for romance, only friendships, and one day it clicked I had some feelings of romantic love for some of my same sex friends (after reviewing my past behavior) I forced(?) myself to feel bad about it during a religious ceremony, because I have the toxic trait of not caring enough about things, but it honestly just made me feel be...... reply
It was kind of like a sudden revelation, like a puzzlement solved or something clicking and making sense. I wouldn't say I was distressed in the same way though. I had this indifference to my gender since way back (and i still do; they call it Apagender / Agender). It never became a major conflict partly because I didn't feel it growing up or it wa...... reply
first i thought i was lesbian cuz i didnt like guys then bisexual cuz i realized that i feel the same with everybody so it made me come to terms with that im asexual and aromantic lol reply
there's a difference if you're more worried about how others see you and if you internally believe it's wrong. if it's about others, I think the best option is reflecting if you want to have external approval, if you're scared of rejection and things like that.
if it's more about a belief, you'll have to question your religion and understand if th...... reply
We are just figuring out our life. And,I don't think that God will hate you for liking a girl. After all,we are His creations. There are criminals who don't regret their works,don't hate themselves. Here you are just loving a person, so don’t hate yourself. I am straight. But I have never been in love and I don’t think that I will ever love a g...... reply
