OP, there are far, far more things you can do/be that are truly pathetic. It's just never liking or having sex. If that's terrifying--i am perfectly fine and happy. Believe me, I'm asexual. And you too, are asexual. It's called being sex repulsed due to trauma. reply
Yes, I have (though i don't have such a friend like yours no offense lol). Had a fairly recent friendship breakup around late 2024/early 2025. We've been friends for 14 years. Rather than regretting the choice, i guess i regret the way i handled it or how it happened. But i made peace with it because i made that choice for a reason, however faulty....... 1 reply
Yes, there are. But to see it is to be genuine yourself too. For younger gens, they're still navigating life. One thing I've noticed with the younger gen is a much more hypercritical awareness of perfection and idealism. And because of it, judgement can be, feel and be dealt with especially brutal. "Because you're/you're not like this, then you're ...... reply
Probably saw a lot of traumatic/horrendous things atp so not limited to yaoi ig but
1) mutilation, inflation/bellystuffing, fisting or anything traumatic
2) exaggerated proportions (a big cock the size and length of a baseball bat rammed into a small uke, like its reordering/breaking their internal organs)
3) Rape. Esp Violent or very clear trau...... 1 reply
This thought popped up a few days ago, but we conventionally relate age and maturity in direct proportion to time and experience. We experience a linear progression to age with time (even though, age, technically, should be a more physically related idea) and much of our thoughts about it is the same way. Maturity is a more complicated metric in that it shows through an assessed growth from overall and cumulative experience -- both quantitative and qualitative. Other factors like culture, relationships, environment, age, physical, social and mental development are also part of that. Age and Maturity are closely related in that sense.
Reinncarnation basically subverts the linear association to the experience of age and maturity. In a lot *and i mean a fk ton cough* of works, the MC will count their lives lived in their 2nd life as their "actual" age. Say you died 20 years old before you reincarnated, so the following 20 years you lived after that is considered additive to your actual, mental maturity, age or experience (40 years old). It's normal to agree to that sentiment, but I've been thinking that that might not actually be a fair assessment. Living an environment with cultural and relational interactions unique to age 0-20 and repeating that is vastly different from living one life until you're 40. You have never experienced the cumulative linear progression of one who has lived 40 years--at least, you have never reached the maturity of someone's who's 40. Perhaps you can apply that to our experience with age (since we experience time as linear), but maturity would be very different.
What are your thoughts on this? Would you actually consider a reincarnated person's age and maturity as additive to their previous life?
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