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Me and my bf have been dating for almost 4 years. He is an amazing human beings. I feel like he is the bf that everyone wishes to have like he genuinely loves you and is always there for you. So the thing is that I’ve been wanting to break up with him for a while . The reason is that he puts soo much pressure on our relationship and on himself for our relationship and i hate that and im not happy in our relationship either and i feel like im the happiest these days when im by myself and our relationship has become a burden for me . He is genuinely such a nice person and i feel like an evil bitch for wanting to break up with him . We are a very young couple im about to turn 20 , i feel like you should be enjoying these years of your life rather than putting too much pressure on yourself and worrying about the future and also my plans for my future is different from his.He is genuinely an amazing human but i don’t think so he’s the human meant for me .
I would love to know ur take on this. Should I break up or should I stay?
Honestly just break up, if the idea of wanting to breakup has already been on your mind there's no point in staying in the relationship. However it's another thing if you haven't really communicated with him regarding the pressure/burden you feel that he's putting on ur relationship. Being in a relationship for 4 years when ur barely about to turn ...... 1 reply
Have you communicated your concerns to him? Has he listened or shown the capability of changing upon hearing so? Did you listen to his side of the coin? Would you be able to explain your side without feeling burdened by it when you announce your desire to break up? Does he pressure you knowingly or was he raised on it? Does he know that he is putti...... 2 reply
If you're already thinking about it, then you should definitely talk to him. You were only 16 when you got together, and between 16 and 20 people change a lot. You shift from a teenager whose main concerns are probably grades and school to a young adult who starts thinking about the future. It's not uncommon for couples who started young to find th...... 1 reply
