istg the amount of times i've seen in yaoi the mc clearly using sex as a self harm tactic and the ML KNOWING THIS and being like "i guess he want hab sex" I DONT KNOW WHAT THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS IN THAT SITUATION IS BUT ITS DEFINITELY NOT HAB SEX OMG THESE FUCKING IDIOTS I KNOW ITS FICTION AND WHATEVER BUT PLEASE DO THEY HAVE TO BE SO UNLIKABLE??? DO ML HAVE AN INABILITY TO SAY NO TO SEX? WHY ARE THEY LIKE THIS? JESUSSSSS THERES OTHER WAYS TO COMFORT SOMEONE THAN WITH YOUR DICK