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How fucked up is it
Hello again everybody today am gonna talk about my ex bsf and how she broke a boundary with me and how it could affect her life
Ok so when I meet my bsf we both had a decent amount of yaoi knowledge and as we knew each other more and got to learn about how yaoi made us see the world in different ways and such we were like we don’t say anything about it. BUT THIS SUMMER SHE DECIDED TO SHOW HER LITTLE SISTER YAOI!!!! Because on the gc she said I showed yaoi to my younger sister and when I read that message I got fuckin angry because we both said don’t show yaoi or enforce others to yaoi so that was clear. But no she had to show it to her sister. And when I told her why tf did she do this she responded saying it was a green flag (blossoms of the white night) and I didn’t tell her that this was fucked up because she would get defensive about it so I told my other friends about it and they said yeah that’s fucked up since showing literal gay porn to a child is fucked up like idgaf if it’s a green flag and it’s not toxic it’s still gay porn and showing it to a literal child could have drastic consequences to their life at such a young age. And my ex bsf proceeded to say that now her sister has questions and she’s excited to explain it to her. And when I read that message I knew this was a boundary she crossed with me because not only is this grooming, this is predatory behavior because your showing child straight up gay porn. Like no the moment I read those messages I was like nope fuck this friendship am done with her. And I had to tell other people because they needed to hear what she did to her little sister and everybody I told were right to leave that friendship because they said it’s fucked up because a seven year old brain is still growing and showing two men fuck while being elementary school is fucked up so I left her by herself and let her deal with her mess she made because I am not cleaning it for her she need to see what she has done to herself and her younger sister because am out of that friendship. And later before school started I cut her off because Zeus gave a sing to cut her off from everywhere I had connections so I left the gc, the friendships, ripped bracelets she gave me, and letters for my birthday, over her showing gay poem to her younger sister and her calling me an idiot when I literally tried to save her from not killing herself like she has a mess to clean and am not helping nor wanna help at all. Also I forgot to add she’s in a cult Jehovah witness so since their rules are so strict with same sex relationships, and other stuff it’s gonna be hard on her but am not focusing on her anymore. Am focusing on myself because I need to focus on my mental health more than hers
Damn that's a lot... you're right it's pretty fucked up.... At first I was like well depends on what age the sister is and what age she is but 7 is very young.... also she could have totally picked out non sexual bls if she wanted but no she went for blossoms of the white night....
I'd argue half of these "green flags" bls aren't even really green ...... 1 reply