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How do you unlike someone?
Okay so, college just started, and I find myself liking a blockmate of mine. It's honestly stupid. I'm the block representative and I want to keep my academics life professional, so this is such a headache for me. I think of him often and I find myself always looking at where he is. I don't really want to like anyone romantically, especially not someone I have to see almost everyday for the next 4 years of my life.
I have never liked a classmate before because it's just not it for me. I also rarely fall because I find romance unappealing. But this one, Idk what this dude put on me. Everytime he smiles, it makes me feel so happy like an airhead. I barely know the guy, but everything I currently know about him pulls me in. I don't think my feelings are that deep yet, but it's already a big problem. Please, anyone help.
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jk my advice is to get really involved into everything thats not the guy, academics aside maybe try some extracurriculars, get to know your teachers, or get a part time job, having more life in your life usually makes you realize most crushes aint allat 1 reply
Honestly, I don't know, haha. It's so hard for me to stop liking someone, especially if I see them every day lol. Unless I find someone new to crush on 1 reply
honestly unliking someone is really hard until they do something so bad that you just start hating them, for now just try to not interact with them so much because the more you do the more youd like him 1 reply
imagine them farting
--or doing other things you find gross. its helped me shatter whatever idealized romantic mental image of a crush ive come up with. 1 reply
It can be hard to unlike someone esp a classmate at that. But overtime, maybe u'll lose interest. Have some distance or don't interact much with them, be busy, or focus on their traits that you don't like about them or turns you off. Maybe they're bad at academics, or they're too laid back reply
Hey, just start asking them "controversial" questions. Don't know where you at from but just some general topics: politics, law enforcement, gender equality, capitalism, religion, etc. I just try to find one thing that I can hold onto to start the "ick" and then it just grows. Anything to break the illusion and mystery of an attractive stranger.
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