Annoying aunties

Is it just me or are all my aunts super judgey, and judge everything I do and my siblings also, it's so annoying to the point that I can't even feel comfortable around them. they judge my behaviour, and also weight, looks and my body on daily basis like I am some sort of a test subject! and it makes it worse with the fact that I have big butt and boobs, which makes them call me a slut behind my back, it makes me so ashamed for something i am not even in control of, like sorry I can't be the perfect quiet angel that you want. (GAHH I WANT TO STRANGLE THEM SO BADLY BUT I CANT JUST CUS THEY MY AUNTIES.) And the fact that I also have to see them every week