So, I already shared this on one of the forums here but there has been an update which was really frustrating. Let me vent!
I said here before that I hate when you come out to someone and they tell you so many times that it's normal which sounds insincere because of the repetition. It felt like they're only saying it to say it and made me feel horrible to myself. Now, after 5 days, this person brought it up again (unprovoked). Mind you, I had this gut feeling that she will try to bring it up because she likes to yap nonsense and to my dismay, she really did. And you know what she said? She told me she's still processing what I said (can't even say the term coming out) and can't believe me. She said that I dont look like one so maybe it wasn't true (what she really said). I was so pissed off that I brushed her off and said nevermind it then. Because 1) it's not for you to fucking process and dig deeper, 2) WHAT KIND OF BULLSHIT MINDSET IS THAT??? just because I'm femme ?? does that means me saying im bi doesn't count??? bitch? be fr
I cant believe i came out to her, a person with such mindset. I wish I could turn back the time goddamit
"Still processing what you said", what does she have to process? I don't reckon it's that much hard of a concept that people are not comfortable with identities and sexualities, if it's hard for you to understand, one would think you realize how much HARDER it is for the person themselves to have to grabble with the idea that they're not the norm
exactly?!! i dont know why she needs to process the fact that im bisexual. whats so fucking hard to grasp? i thought we're already a progressive society but the enemy is closer
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"Still processing what you said", what does she have to process? I don't reckon it's that much hard of a concept that people are not comfortable with identities and sexualities, if it's hard for you to understand, one would think you realize how much HARDER it is for the person themselves to have to grabble with the idea that they're not the norm
exactly?!! i dont know why she needs to process the fact that im bisexual. whats so fucking hard to grasp? i thought we're already a progressive society but the enemy is closer
brah wtf is that friend
"you dont look like one" this is biphobia to its finest stay far far away from her she doesnt deserve you
i wish i could but she's my roommate and she's been annoying me for some time now
sorry you have to live with this creature idk how you can tolerate it i would have killed her already
i've been tolerating her yapping and lack of social cues but this triggered me so much im looking for a way to move out
very very long vent i see
LMAOO i edited it now
Its because of the emoji
yeah
fuck the rest of the message got cut