Looking for readable bl manwhas?

Am I the only one or are bl authors making stories for the sake of making stories? I cant for the live of me find a good bl manwha where the story is well written, has all tropes in consideration, isn't all about sex sex sex and has actually good or even barely good art style, pacing and storyline. It's so hard to find a good manwha that I genuinely start looking forward to possible side stories for the side stories of the side stories of peak manwhas that have already ended years ago. Come onnnn. And why is everything about sex? SEX SEX SEX SEX. IM TIRED OF IT. AT THIS POINT I'D RATHER READ BROMANCE BROTHER. Either that or it's full of stereotypes, pedophilia, obvious women man roles or problematic in general. I'd kill to find a good trope where it's actually good and you can feel the chemistry and love from the characters. And not the Lust of theirs or how their current or former sex position is so important. How hard can it be to write a good story? I can write better ones in my head before going to sleep goddammit. WHO IS APROVING THESE IDEEAS???