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How do gay women meet other women??
I’ve never dated anyone but I want a girlfriend sooo bad. HOW do I meet hot women that also like women?? I tried joining the gay club at my college but it’s just a bunch of nonbinary ppl and twinks. (Nothing wrong with that but yknow…probably not the right place to find a gf…)♀ I like feminine women and that makes it hard to tell if they like women or not. Not to mention I can barely speak around beautiful women. Will I just be lonely forever☹
i go through the exact same shit, only the difference is that i talk to beautiful, gorgeous, stunning women and everything’s fine, BUT they think somehow i'm some kind of lab experiment they can visit to test things out, to see if being with another woman works for them, to see if they like it. and if they don’t? well they just go back to thei...... reply
hate to say it but the best reliable way is dating apps since you can meet people who clearly say what they want! even if it's just to meet people it can be useful, unfortunately it can be hard to find something more serious.
also not to be stereotypical but joining a mostly femme sports club or something art related usually brings lots of queer p...... reply
Instagram actually works u.u it might seem a bit weird, but yeah: you add girls from your city. Sometimes they literally have the flag in their presentation, or they're more subtle, but you can see it. Soo you like her WLW posts, post some WLW stuff yourself, and—boom—you’re dropping hints, chatting, and eventually going out to know each othe...... 1 reply
Same. My family strongly are homophobic + religious. I don't like going at bars since high chance ppl are looking for hookups/experimenting + I can't tolerate being drunk. I can't do online/apps since I could be exposed. Also, I'm nervous of ppl pranking or setting a trap. reply
I'm a trans man so I probably won't be that helpful, but are you maybe drinking age? I'm only asking because in different countries the ages are different even if your in college, but perhaps maybe try a lesbian bar? I wouldn't 100% recommend it only because a lot of people in bars look for hookups rather then relationships. If not maybe try some d...... 1 reply
girl go online.
if I remember correctly, lesbian clock out at 0.5% of global population, around a little more than 1% of women (so I cut by 50%), aka of every 100 people you meet, a little more than 0.5 are lesbian.
you need to meet like 100 random people to get half a girl, 200 to get a girl (assuming you just go on the street, not like you know...... reply
Gawd, this is my problem too. I don't like going to bars because I literally can't interact with people (I don't know how to communicate huhu). I also refuse to go out bc I'm a lazy bum lmaoooo. reply
go to a lesbian bar or party. Unfortunately im only able to access them through word of mouth since they’re not really an open public space for them and it’s pretty lowkey.. I usually see posters online or on the street for them . I’m not sure why they’re not as advertised as gay clubs but I guess it’s to keep cis straight men out
Honest...... reply
im in college and lowkey there are so many lesbians here so hopefully ur college is full of them too...
ive found that the best way to find fems is to go where fems like to hang out... ive found that a lot of them (at least in my area) like to hang at the library and some local record shop and esp at this asian shopping center (with a kinokuniya, h...... reply
I wish I knew, sometimes I also think about how I want a girlfriend but at the same time I honestly need to let that thought die cause it wouldn’t be fair to her. She’d have to be a secret because I never plan on coming out to my family. So it’d honestly just be so stupid. Plus, I feel like with the way that people are social media oriented n...... reply
