Rant about your ex

I'll go first
It's long so you don't HAVE to read it, you can skip, tell me about your ex ....
We were together for 2 years and for the first year we were together in the same city , went to the same school. He used to pressure me into kissing him and touching him in public and I hated that. I'm Asian, so dating is a big NO. Your parents choose your husband so I was always worried that someone might snitch on me and for that reason I always denied PDA. .....

One day , IN SCHOOL he kissed me on my cheek, he wanted lips but I firmly denied. Some classmate (a boy I had turned down before) went ahed and snitched about it to my class teacher and boy was the teacher mad. He scolded me and him in front of the whole class saying things like "go get a hotel room or something" . That petrified me. I was HUMILIATED . I hate PDA and the fact that I was forced into it and being scolded in front of the whole class made me wanna die.

His mom found out that he had a girlfriend because she saw a little iloveyou note in his wallet and took him to the village to get blessed by a priest (to get rid of me) . HE was careless and he blamed me for it and he expected me to be greatful that he hadn't broken up with me . He'd say that he had done so much for me I'd never understand. Yeah? You got scolded by your mother that's all that happened and that was because YOU were careless.

Fast forward to 1 year later, I moved to a my hometown and joined a cram school for college entrance exam preparation. I couldn't really give him too much of my time because I was living with my whole family there and yk privacy isn't a thing when you live in a joint family. I'd wake up early and come home late from class and was always tired , and the rest of the time I had I spent playing with my 2yo cousin sister whom I met for the first time when I moved there.

He'd be mad that I wasn't texting him all the damn time about all the updates like "class is over" "I wore my hair up in ponytail bla bla bla " we talked the bare minimum. One day my classmate who was also my friend from middle school asked me to wait with him for 2 hours and study together because a test was coming up .
I agreed. So because I had to stay 2 extra hours because of him he offered to buy me snacks. We went to a nearby convenience store and bought a few packets of chips and chupa chups

So at night when I was talking to him , I told him about this and he got mad? He said that "You have time to hang out with your male friend but you can't talk to me after you come home from class" .....
Like what?? That's not hanging out, we were studying together? That was one thing, there were a few boys from class who'd text me and wanna be friends with me so I told my bf about this (just casually mentioned) which made him mad , he said that I'm purposefully mentioning these things to make him feel bad? ......
I'm actually not . At the end of the day when you talk to your boyfriend, what are you supposed to talk about? The things that happened that day right?If a boy confessed to me why would I not tell him??

So I just did that and all of a sudden he said "After going to that place you have gained a lot of attitude because you're getting too much attention" ohmyfuvkinggod I don't wanna toot my own horn but don't date a pretty girl if you have a problem with men paying attention to her .
It's not like I reciprocated ANYTHING, I was just telling him about my daily interactions.

One night, I had a DREAM that I was leaning on a balcony railing and smoking with a guy who was a doctor .Pretty simple dream right?. I told him about it and his all his energy went down , like brother it's a dream? And from that day on I just stopped telling him anything related to the men around me .

Everytime we'd have a fight, he'd unfriend me on snapchat and blockme on Instagram being all sassy.Like okay queen I didn't know you were supposed to be the girlfriend in the relationship

One time we had a fight because he questioned my character and we didn't talk for 6 days. I was the one who broke no contact (should've never done that) and he tells me that he's been talking to a girl (whose name he never told me despite me begging him for 2 months) who's been betrayed by her boyfriend, he said that she and him are in the same boat because both of them are hurt