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Avoidant attachment issues
Anyone else so avoidant that it physically hurts them to pursue a relationship? I dated a girl a while back and I always had headaches, insomnia, and generally felt chest pains and exhaustion all the time. The symptoms only got better after we broke up.
I’m avoidant too but also hyper independent. Never been in relationships. I can imagine it sometimes and it’s make me happy too that having someone to share a life with etc but then i think about that i would care for them, take responsibility for them.. it’s just no. I already tired just with living my parents (though they are the reason why...... 1 reply
were you dating a gas leak by any chance? but no, yeah. i'd feel so nauseous when i had a girlfriend, accompanied by shortness of breath. then i'd feel bad about shutting her out that the symptoms would worsen lol. i've accepted solitude. 1 reply
I feel seen . I hate Hate HATE talking to anyone daily , saying goodmorning goodnight did you eat baby bullshit, I HATE incorporating anyone into my daily routine. I don't care how was your day I don't care if you ate or not.I hate sending texts. So what if we're together, that doesn't mean we have to talk every day for hours .
This made me reali...... 3 reply
