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What constitutes as asexuality?
Until recently, I believed I was pansexual. Today, while I was reading some yaoi manga, and, well, touching myself to it, a thought occurred- I will inevitably get married, and will have sex with my partner. But the thought grossed me out. Not only the thought that someone would be touching me, but the thought of touching someone else was very repulsive too. This is strange- my love language is physical touch, and I love giving people hugs platonically. I have also kissed my friends on the cheek a few times, or on the top of their head, all platonic. But the thought of touching someone sexually is grossing me out. I'm a virgin, but I've had my fair share of partners, though it never went past hugging. A few tried, but I refused, and we broke up. Does this count as asexuality? Also, I don't feel the same way about fictional characters, but I don't think I'm fictosexual.
I'm pretty sure it does. You can also be pansexual and asexual at the same time. Being Asexual is being repulsed or having little to non interest of having sex WITH another person but you can still feel romantic attraction with other ppl (asexual but not aromantic). There are gay and lesbians who consider themselves as asexuals or in the spectrum c...... reply
