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How to stop hoping for other people's downfalls?
Exactly what the title says. I often catch myself wishing that people close to me should fall back so that I can rise, which is of course, a vicious way of thinking. These are likely intrusive thoughts, much like most of the other ones that I have. I just want them to stop. I hate wishing bad things for other people but I genuinely can't help this; its like internal tourette's or something. If any of you guys struggle with this (which you likely don't), how do you deal with this?
That happens when you think you're falling behind others and when you're comparing yourself to them, and in the process you end up hating them for climbing above while you're stuck down below. The easy fix is to just set goals for yourself about what you want success for yourself and work on them, when you do that, you effectively stop yourself fro...... reply
