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How to stop hoping for other people's downfalls?
Exactly what the title says. I often catch myself wishing that people close to me should fall back so that I can rise, which is of course, a vicious way of thinking. These are likely intrusive thoughts, much like most of the other ones that I have. I just want them to stop. I hate wishing bad things for other people but I genuinely can't help this; its like internal tourette's or something. If any of you guys struggle with this (which you likely don't), how do you deal with this?
do any of your parents/relatives/friends talk shit abt someone's achievements in front of you? bc kids who grow up hearing their parents compare them to others and talking shit abt others' achievements end up having such thoughts even when they don't actually feel that way or feel guilty abt having such thoughts.
you can't exactly fix that; you'l...... reply