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How to stop hoping for other people's downfalls?
Exactly what the title says. I often catch myself wishing that people close to me should fall back so that I can rise, which is of course, a vicious way of thinking. These are likely intrusive thoughts, much like most of the other ones that I have. I just want them to stop. I hate wishing bad things for other people but I genuinely can't help this; its like internal tourette's or something. If any of you guys struggle with this (which you likely don't), how do you deal with this?
I think the first step is determining where these thoughts and feelings stem from. Do you think it comes from a place of envy, jealousy, or inferiority? These can be triggering words, but it’s really valuable to understand these things about ourselves, and what sort of past experiences may have developed into these emotional reactions, which may ...... reply