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How to stop hoping for other people's downfalls?
Exactly what the title says. I often catch myself wishing that people close to me should fall back so that I can rise, which is of course, a vicious way of thinking. These are likely intrusive thoughts, much like most of the other ones that I have. I just want them to stop. I hate wishing bad things for other people but I genuinely can't help this; its like internal tourette's or something. If any of you guys struggle with this (which you likely don't), how do you deal with this?
Not to be a nerd but this is actually a topic I consider myself relatively well-versed in!
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Having a thought about wanting someone else to fail does not mean that you genuinely want to hurt them, or that you're a bad person, or that you're incapable of being happy for other people.
We have to make a distinction first!:
1. Having tha...... reply