help plz

my dad tries to like sell me off in a way like he offers my services like he suggests I go stay and help out at someone else's place or he legit just springs it on me saying, "why don't you stay and work for him" without asking me he's done this several times and
I've asked him to stop several times idk why he's doing this or if anyone knows why he's doing this I am currently job searching and my dad's the type of person who doesn't change now my mum has done the same thing but I've talked to her about it and she's slowed it down now