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Here's the tea.
I love beautiful people;
I especially love beautiful men!
I am attracted to all men I find attractive.
I fall in love hella easy.
Case in point: the greatest love of my life is a guy that held my eyes (in a very intense manner) ONCE! And I loved him2 years straight.
He is a complete stranger.
Even when I was dying for his dick...er, his AFFECTION! I still saw all the other cute boys and was VERY attracted to them all!
I've been looking for love for the past....11 years.
Single since birth here.
However, I'm still single.
Men talk (boys), but they're not my type.
Lately, as I've gotten older, 21, I've started to notice I've been making myself romantically available to a LOT of men I...find appealing. Like, at the same time.

Am I a hoe or desperate?

I know I'm desperate. And a hoe. A thirsty hoe I need a SO

If you like talking to strangers and have a line, drop ur id so I can add you to this GC i want to create to talk to people.

We can talk about any and everything: school, life, love, heartbreak, writing experiences, reading, YT, movies, depression, fears, stress. Honestly, anything. Just....PLEASE don't let the chat die. I've been part of too many GC's that are dead.

Please join me!

I'm so lonely and just want to talk to people to feel....warmer.

I need help.
I'm 21, never dated, never been in love, and I'm tired of that shit.
I want to date.
I'm ready for love.
I'm ready to be dicked down.
I'm ready for heartbreaks.
I'm ready to have my ass smacked, and a tongue shoved down my throat!
So, this year I plan to start shooting my shot.
There's this cute guys I've seen around my uni campus a few time, around 3 times now. I'm attracted to him.
I want to talk to him.
I want him to know I fucking exist and I'm interested.
So, peps, if ten of you say shoot your shot, I'm doing it.
Fuck it! We live once qnd die once!
If I get rejected, I'll just move on!
What I want to do is this:
1. When I see him next (Thursday), I plan to maintain eye contact and smile.

2. Next Thursday, or any other time we cross path, as we're walking, I want to smile at him, keep eye contact, and say "Hi. This might seem weird and all, but I've seen you around and I was just wondering if we could exchange numbers?"
Tell me to do it or if I should sit my ass down and stop trying.
I'm tired of waiting bc the guys I want are not the ones who come sniffing around.
Like the saying goes, if you want something, you should go get it, right???
Help!!!

I've always been the only black bl fan that i know of. I know that black countries can be very...homophobic and all that jazz (i am from one and a very homophobic family, too), but i know that there is a lot of us out here and i want to become friends with y'all.
Anyone of y'all wants to join my line group? drop your id if you want to join.
we can talk about any and everything and bond over our similarity and difference.

Can I get some advice?
I want to hit on someone. I want to slide in their dm, and I do not know how to go about doing it. I’m stuck on what I should say.

Background info:

I used to work at the same place as this man. Never talked. I befriended him on fb and he accepted the request. The year is almost over and I just have nothing to lose and I want to let him know I’m into him. If he is not, I want to know and move on.

Any advice on how I can hit on him?

Please, please help. I really, really need the advice.

I want to ask y'all sometbing. So, I was reading this post about counting how many times you've been called pretty or have had someone say you're beautiful. They also added some metrics such as people your own age and the opposite sex/gender and being complimented behind your back. And, I was floored. Like, sure, women have called me beautiful. Old men have called me beautiful. Older men (not old, just much older than me and the type who seems to lust after young twenty-somethings) have complimented me, but a man my age, who I find equally as beautiful has never complimented me. Like, never! No one (I am attracted to, physically, visually, emotionally, etc.) has ever asked for my number, no random cuties is adding me on social media. I'm floored at this realization! Like....am I ugly to young men my age?

Hello Mangago,

I am here to ask a rather...personal? Mundane? question. I do not really have anyone close to me I could ask this, so here I am on Mangago (once again, /le sigh/).

Ladies and gents, I’m 22, never been in a relationship, and, once again, I have a huge crush on this man from my place of work. We do not work in the same department and I’m not going to get into it, but he’s probably around 15 years older than I (don’t start), and we’ve never really talked. But I WANT THAT TO CHANGE. I feel as if I am too old to be sitting around and waiting for someone to talk to me, wasting my time (if he’s not interested I want to know now so I can MOVE ON!)

So, I promised myself that if I still liked him after I’ve found a new job I was going to try to talk to him. It seems that even though miss Covid-19 tried it, I might still acquire a new job. FINGERS CROSSED!

So, in leu of this development, I’ve settled with myself that the first thing I will do is hit him up on social media—befriended him on FB (couldn’t find insta, which I’d prefer, but beggars can’t be choosers in this situation).

THE ADVICE I NEED IS ON HOW I SHOULD SLIDE IN HIS DMs!

How do you I hit on a complete stranger?

From his social, he is not married. Yay! I’m not really looking for anything TOO serious. Just something casual (cough/sexual/cough). But I am a complete newbie and could POTENTIALLY be way over my head. But, hey, have to start with the heartbreaks somewhere, right (*smiley face-wink).

Help me out!

P.s. I might very well be wrong, but I think the attraction is rather mutual. So, I’m not heading in completely blind. He know I exist, I know that for a fact. Not too sure on anything else, though....hmm, I best not think myself out of this. I do that a lot.


HELP ME OUT WITH ACTUAL LINES!

Also, I would appreciate if the people who answered were knowledgeable, experienced, and my age or older (sorry my young and inexperienced cuties, I really want this to work).

Help me get some dick in 2020!!!!!!

......Being blunt.

Early morning existential loneliness hits a different way, am right or am I correct?

Shit. I’m just so lonely and bored, and not having people I feel like I can just vent about isn’t helping. Plus, a d appointment would help too, but none of the guys I want to fuck seems to want to be in the same vicinity as me.

Let me just let myself out.

So, I have this GC I created bc I wanted to be surrounded by a group of people who enjoyed talking to people online as much as I do and enjoy talking about their love life. I don’t have a love life, a chronic Singleton, but I do have crushes, and bouts of loneliness, so I like to talk about those things. But my GCs keep on dying. It is the saddest thing. I’m literally tired of trying revive my GCs.

Anyone want to join a GC.
I wished it wouldn’t die, but idk, I just need someone to rant to about my life life and romance and all that shit.

Drop your user name to Line and or Insta. I might just create an insta GC.

I’m bored and I feel like I’ve read all the BL here that can be read. I’m in a reading mood.

Here’s all the tropes, clichés, and genres that I LOVE!

1. For one partner to be ugly (I like it when it is the »uke »).
And by extension, i also like a when: One partner is hella hot and popular.
3. Super loving partners and relationship
4. I’m into that possessive shit—Painter of the Night? Yes!
5. I burn for you type of sex. It doesn’t have to be ridiculously detailed, just emotionally intense. So, yeah, a lot of « love »-making. I love the love part of that word a lot.
6. I like the boring domestic shit. Basically, I love contemporary romances.
7. Consent is a « yes! »
8. Actual gay characters
9. Freaky sex, without the bdsm (it doesn’t do it for me)
10. LOVE! ROMANCE! Action!!!
11. Star-crossed lovers type of stories are a chef’s kiss (i.e coyote).
12. Hate to love (enemies to lover). I love this trope to DEATH
13. I love, love, love a good fuck buddy story (of course they have to fall in love).
14. Friends to lovers is another favorite.

Please give me a lot of recommendations, pls

Hi everyone!
This is not the update I wanted to make, but here it is.
When I settled on Thursday, I did not realized it would be Valentine's Day.
However, I said fuck it.
I decided to overlook step one (smiling and keeping eye contact) and just go ahead and tell homeboy I wanted to exchange info.
So, I dressed up, wore makeup that turned out AMAZING.
My makeup skill is just...there.
I do a mean eye-makeup, but that's.
Still, today, I looked slim as fuck, my makeup looked great, my bun looked cute as fuck.
I smelled like heaven.
I LOOKED AMAZING!
I was all ready.
I even met this girl at the math lab at my school (where you get help with math hw), and she showed me a text her bf sent her, it was cute as fuck (asking her to be his Valentine's. They've been dating for a year now. Why am I still single?), and I told her about my plans to shoot my shot! She even helped me out, y'all. We were going over how to do it, what to say, and all that!
I was getting hyped!
When the time that I usually saw him came, I sprayed some perfume on to make sure I still smelled like a flower field and fled the lab.
Whelp!
It came.....and passed....and I did not see him.
LET ME CRY!!!
I'M SO FUCKING OVER THIS SHIT!
I'M OVER LOVE!
MOTHER NATURE HATES ME!
Okay, now that's over. Let me ask y'all, what should I do?
Should I still attempt?
Let's say, tmrw, Friday, if I see him on campus, should I still shoot my shot (looking less gorgeous), or should I take this as a sign that home-boy took the day from school to spend it with his GF and I have no chance?
IDK. I do not want to give up, but....It's not like I have a 'crush' on him.
I just think he is very attractive and would love to get to know him.
I'm attracted, but that's all.
I can wait to be attracted to another guy.
Thoughts?
Be truthful with me.
Don't tell me to do things you wouldn't do.
I feel like it is not in my cards to ever date or fall in love.
HUGE sigh.
I'm over it.
Another V-day single.
Let me go do m hws.

i slid in the dm of the guy i have a crush on.
i did something horrible by putting him on read for a whole day. i was trying to decide if I want to embarrass myself. i've decided YOLO. lol
now, i need advice on how to flirt.
lol, if he respond, can someone become my friend on so I can just run ad ask how to respond? guys, i know nothing about flirting or men.

I’ve never realized how I didn’t have friends or people to talk to until I started this two weeks quarantine thing. I mean, I knew, but I was lacking sleep, working too much, had too many assignments, and it all kind of took all my time.

I’m so bored and lonely. I’m slowly finishing all my assignments, and I’ve been watching movies, and kind of disappointed about this Thai show I was really excited for (but it’s kind of ready bad and juvenile), and I’m trying to pick up my studies for this certifying exam I am going to be taking in May, but I just want readily available people to talk to.

Honestly, I realized I prob should stop trying to find people with common interest to talk to on Mangago, bc every time I’ve tried the GC dies or the GC feels alienating, but I am SOOOOOO bored.

If you want to talk, hit me up!

For the first time in my life, I think I’ve finally had the kind of attraction to someone that you read in books. It was instantaneous. I saw him and I just thought he was so “cute.” And then, as the day progressed, my attraction grew and grew. half way during our time together, I grew sad at the thought that this was just one sided and that I would never see him again. I know I need to put my grown woman panties on and move on, but I’ve never been this attracted to someone I’ve met just once before. Like, I’ve had one intense ‘crush’ in my life, but this feels different. This feels less juvenile, and I’m mortified of thinking or seeing it that way. This attraction was whole and complete. I wanted to be with him and BE with him—if you catch my drift...which you do now.

Idk. I don’t want to not do anything. I feel like I’ll regret it. But I feel so small and inferior. I feel like crying. I’m miserable.

I've started a group chat on Line, bc no one wants to invite me to theirs. And i created a line just for that, too. Sad.
I'll invite anyone and everyone.
I just want to talk about Bl anything, from comic to anime to movies. I want to have great discussions!
So, just tell me if you want to join!

I want to have a small discussion about Asian representation in books/novels originally written in English.

Okay, idk if y'all here also love to read written books without drawings (comics), but I do and try to read as much and as often as I can.

Disclaimer before I pose my "question/observation": I am not Asian or of Asian descent or am related or close with anyone that claims of being Asian. I love Indian movies, consume East Asian comics and TV series (Thailand/Taiwan for the win!), watches tone of documentaries on East, West, South, and North Asia, but that's as connect that I am to them. Now that is out there!

One thing I've noticed in YA books, and it bothers the hell out of it, is the fact a LOT of lead characters of Asian descents are half white and a good number of number of them date or love/lust after white boys/men. But, the thing that I've really taken notice of is how a lot of them are biracial and not purely of an Asian ethnicity. Like, I do not mind it (I'm not Asian and it doesn't seems to bother them), but...I cannot help but take notice. I'll mention two insanely popular YA novels right now who has one or two of the things I mentioned: "to all the boys i've loved before" and "the astonishing color after."

One of my all time favorite reads, and a book that pulled me out of my reading slump is "The Ghost Bride," which do not have any of those two things that I've observed and was just AMAZING! I'm not Asian, reiterating once more, and I could relate and felt the wonder and just loved it (world building, history, culture, it is all so beautiful and what truly made that book--read it!)

Moving on, what do y'all think?

I really want people to answer this if they have time. I really want to have a small discussing on why do y'all think this is like that, and if you happen to be Asian I would especially love to hear your input on how you feel about it and how it shapes or make Asian representation different.

At the rate that i see my life going, I'm honestly to the point where i fear I'll never meet a romantic partner.
I fear i'll die alone.
Like, y'all, i kinda want to be a hoe and be dicked down before i die
Every time i TRY to change my life, failure is what ensues.
Like....what did i do 2wrong in my past life?
On a whole serious note: I'm just ready for love/sex and all that, why is it not ready for me?

I write for fun. I used to write fanfics; since I now hate Kpop, I don't anymore cause that's the only fandom I was into. I'm starting to write original stories, but I miss having people to talk to about stories, like the plot, flow, pacing and other shit like that. I've always wanted to have a group of people I can talk to about the writing process, that's what I really loved about writing fanfics (the people and connections formed).

If anyone has a Line and want to have writing buddies, please drop your id.

Now, I find a lot of bl characters whole snacks. However, I've never been attracted to one as I am to BJ Alex Jiwon.
I want to ride him till it hurts. I want to bite that sexy mole on his neck. Never thought moles sexy, but that has changed. I want him....so badly.

Too bad he is fictional!

So, I'm turning 21 on Monday. I've been single since I was born, never kissed, never held a man's hand, never been in love, never had sex, never had cute text msgs with a cute man I like. Never done anything with an attractive man I'm attracted to.

I'm so lonely.
I'm ready to date. Ready to kiss.

I feel like my life is racing before me and I'm just stuck here.

I'm so lonely.

Before anyone tells me, you don't need a man, I know, I want one.

I want to start living and one part of living it up is getting some dick that attached to someone I'm attracted to and in love with.

Can anyone relate?