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I'm lonely
So, I'm turning 21 on Monday. I've been single since I was born, never kissed, never held a man's hand, never been in love, never had sex, never had cute text msgs with a cute man I like. Never done anything with an attractive man I'm attracted to.
I'm so lonely. I'm ready to date. Ready to kiss.
I feel like my life is racing before me and I'm just stuck here.
I'm so lonely.
Before anyone tells me, you don't need a man, I know, I want one.
I want to start living and one part of living it up is getting some dick that attached to someone I'm attracted to and in love with.
I met my current girlfriend when I was 23. We are both the first to each other. I also know people who stay single until late 20s or early 30s. Being single at 20 is not going to kill you, instead, how about taking the time to invest in and explore yourself, building confidence and experience? If you think you are ready for a relationship, put your...... reply
Relateable. Absolutely. In my 20 years life i never had a lover. Eventually in my high school all my friends got one and i kinda envy so i decided to have one when i go college no matter what. But then i'm in college now i don't give a fuck :) not to mention i have a really high standard (too much bl handsome boi manga) so yeah, kinda gave up and d...... 1 reply
Late happy birthday ;)
Yup I know what u feel and it’s like, hmm okay I’m lonely but oh my fucking god can I found a guy who can fuck me or smth. But like, you’re too shy for tuff like this right? So hm, you’re adult so try something (idk if new). Find one free weekend, buy some sexy stuff, make yourself look like holy good bitch, just feel...... 1 reply
first of all, I can say relate. Sadly, save for "wanting to date'. That being said, dating out of desperation is never a good idea. It breeds toxicity. A good Idea is to try dating apps though. Also do to your lack of prior experience, things are bound to be awkward at times, but dont jump into new things right away. Go at your own pace. reply
So I'm in my early 20s too and I could really relate to this until one month ago. (Except then that I was looking for a woman, not a man). I felt so lonely all the time and really wanted that first kiss too. One day I just decided to go for it and signed up for speeddating. I met a girl I really liked and we were a match. We even went on a literal ...... 1 reply
Don't worry too much. I'm 26 never dated or lots of the things on your list. It's not that I don't have attraction to other people since I'm bi. In my early 20s I tried online dating it really wasn't for me (if I ever try it again I'm def paying for it). I'm not getting into it too much but online dating is so HARD to find someone normal...or who d...... 2 reply
I've been married for 23 years, but I remember that feeling... or something like it. I was sexually active pretty early in my life. Unfortunately, not by choice. And I never wanted for a sexual partner, they were a dime a dozen. Yet, I still felt devastatingly lonely. I wanted someone to love me. Not just the pretty words I heard to get me to sprea...... 2 reply
I'm turning 20 this coming april and never be with someone I love after a years.
I had a boyfriend when I was 13 y.o but we broke up 3 months later for some personal reason and bcoz our age gap is 5 years and I'm too young that day. I thought he was my first love but it was just a puppy love.
At first.
I'm happy living my life as a single person ...... 2 reply
Henlo! I created an account just to answer this question hehe.
Well as for me, I do relate :) But then I always think to myself that it's better for me to end up being alone for the rest of my life than to actually end up being with the wrong person. I mean, surely, it sucks to feel lonely all the time but hey, there's plenty of other things out th...... 2 reply
I can relate to it. I crave being in love so much it is honestly weird. I wanna do all that shit and more with someone and it would be amazing but finding someone to match is difficult. Well, hopefully one day. 1 reply
