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I can't fall asleep unless I have my favorite blanket with me.   1 reply

I was 10 (found it while searching for non-yaoi Kingdom Hearts stuff).   1 reply

Conflict.   reply

I like Junjou Romantica more because I really enjoy the relationship between Nowaki and Hiroki. They have a lot of sweet and touching moments together and I like seeing them deal with struggles as a couple. It was the first BL series to ever make me cry. Both are good series though but Junjou Romantica is just more special to me, maybe because Hiro......   3 reply

I can relate to some of what you said... stuff like not having good self-esteem but at the same time having perfectionist standards for yourself and people... and relating to BL characters' feelings and getting reassurance from it. And yeah, having personal and mental issues going on can make things hard to deal with, too, so I can understand that ......   reply

My advice would be to never depend on anyone way too much. I depended too much on certain people and wish that I hadn't let my life revolve so much around them since it ended up damaging my mental and emotional well-being. People can change and surprise you. Keep an open heart and allow yourself to have friendships and romantic relationships, but l......   reply

INTP-T has always been my result.   reply

The past couple months have been difficult. I think things have calmed down a bit more, but I still have trouble worrying about everything. It's hard to sleep, both falling asleep and staying asleep come difficult to me on most nights. My mom got into an accident towards the start of November and became bed-ridden, so I have to take care of her. My......   1 reply

A few weeks of school is still enough time. Finish the assignments as soon as you can, honestly I would worry more about just getting them done first rather than having them be perfect first. After you finish them, at least you can have a "bad" version to turn in rather than having nothing at all. So just try to get the finishing part over with. Th......   2 reply

After being shocked and confused at how the heck that could have happened to me, I think I would just start to hate it, honestly.   1 reply

No, luckily that has never happened to me. I read explicit things alone in my room and I have my own laptop, fortunately.   reply

BB, because my real name has 2 Bs in it.   2 reply

Sorry to hear you're going through that. My early 20s were the same. My skin has gotten way better since then, thankfully. First off, your question was how do you fight it? Well, one piece of advice I would give is to not fight it too aggressively. Honestly, I feel like paying less attention to it helped me out, because it's so easy for it to becom......   1 reply

Having a cardiac arrhythmia and being taken away by the paramedics in an ambulance. It was my first time being in an ambulance and I was freaking out so badly from thinking of worst case scenarios on the way to the hospital. It happened earlier this year and I'm really hoping it doesn't happen again.   reply

I don't think it's weird. It's better to take your time than to rush into a relationship. Many people who end up in a relationship at a young age (or any age, really) aren't truly as happy as they seem. Those people you mentioned who seem like they have their romantic lives all figured out might be less happy with each other than they want others t......   reply

Like many people pointed out already, don't rush to fall in love. Some other advice... don't ever idolize anyone too much. Even someone you love with all your heart is human at the end of the day and has flaws. Also, don't think that someone who is very similar to you is automatically the best match for you. It's okay to fall in love with someone w......   reply

I only took one semester of beginner Korean in university and don't practice it enough on my own, so I'm definitely not fluent or anything. But the textbook we used is called "Integrated Korean." It helped me out with learning basic grammar and vocabulary, so maybe you'll find it useful as well. Good luck.   1 reply