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Answer from a cold-hearted person : Get rid of her. You do not need this type of people in your life. Yes it's going to hurt. But you'll be fine. You'll find your real friends in time. It's sad, but people will keep betraying you until the end. There will always be people that will betray you. What you need to do is find out who are the real frie......   reply

When I was younger, I used to be very naive, selfless, easy-going, without personality, a crybaby. Then I don't know how but I'm now an arrogant cold-hearted bitch. And I like that.   1 reply

Hmmm, I am not a biiig fan of BNHA but I still watch it (bc it's better than doing nothing lol, keeps me busy) but I'd have two options : Mow. Male OC, looks manly, very tall (1m90), have a bang that covers his eyes, he looks intimidating, skinny but have some muscles and broad shoulders, he's strong physically. But he's actually an socially awkwa......   1 reply

Yeah, actually I'm a switch. 90% dom though so I'd be bratty af. Not gonna be easy to dominate but I'm really into that "earn my submission" thingy so... But I'm more into obedient subs even if it's always fun when they're a bit bratty   2 reply

Long story coming : I think you might be bicurious, without being bi. And to answer your question, then I saw lot of comments saying "it's not like in a manga at all" but funny fact : for me it was almost like it. I was basically an ignorant potato aboutt sexual orientation. I didn't evn know that being gay was a thing bc I was raised in a relig......   reply

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Brat tamer 100% Rigger 99% Primal (Hunter) 98% Dominant 98% Sadist 97% Daddy/Mommy 96% Experimentalist 94% Degrader 91% Master/Mistress 52% Owner 46% Ageplayer 45% Voyeur 44% Pet 42% Exhibitionist 39% Switch 35% Boy/Girl 21% Primal (Prey) 18% Vanilla 10% Non-monogamist 9% Rope bunny 5% Submi......   1 reply

Well I'm gay and in a relationship so yeah. Never done it with a guy so I can't compare. I've never really had any orgasm. I mean, it does feel amazing but I really struggle with orgasm, it's a bit complicated for me to go all the way. It's like I'm on about to jump of a cliff but I never do lol. ALL I know is that it feels really great.   2 reply

I was an ignorant about sexual orientation until I was about like 13yo, because I was raised in a very religious family that tried to hide it from me. In primary school I've always felt like I was weird for not crushing on anyone (girls included) when everyone around me would crush on people really easily. I was already very tomboy-ish and I was h......   1 reply

Have sex with my gf ? xD No but seriously, I've always been very tomboyish and I have a kind of androgynous look so... But I never wanted a dick so I'll probably see how it works. It'll mostly be curiosity I think but I'd like to get my real body back though lmao   reply

I'm a gay seme girl, and my gf is 100% uke. And even if it's unusual for such a young couple (I'm 19, she's 18), we're into bdsm. But like, for real, not just the rp and the ropes, our whole relationship is about our Seme/Uke dynamic. So I take my "role" as her Seme really seriously. I did a lot of research etc, and I can't stand to see a "seme" tr......   7 reply

I don't really WANT to, I'm just a bit curious. I'd probably be an Alpha, like, some kind of rebellious Alpha. I'd be living in my own bubble anyway lol   reply

It will get better. You'll keep being betrayed, being hurt but it will get better. Learn to love yourself, you are worth it. You have nothing to be ashamed of : assume your mistakes and learn from it. Proudly wear your scars like trophies. Because all of these will make you a better person if you chose to learn and accept. And yes, you'll find you......   2 reply

I am not sure what I am. I mean, I have a girlfriend so that makes me gay, but I don't know if I am attracted to boys. I only had one boyfriend and I remember it as a bad experience so I don't know if it was just him or it was my sexuality. I also am a sort of gender-fluid (?) like, I'm more comfortable with myself when my behavior is more "masculi......   3 reply

Well, as a girl who had only one relationship... All I can say is that I'm currently 100% S with my girlfriend. And she's completely M, so it's always fun. She's very open-minded even though she's very young (she's 18, I'm 19) and we love bdsm. That's really amazing that she enjoys the same stuff as me. But since she's a very shy person when it co......   2 reply

Well I read there's many people out there ! I feel very happy there's people hating 50 shits of Grey here. I feel sad for people who are not able to do BDSM :c It's so fun. Right now I'm a bit frustrated because I moved to Canada for one month while she remains in France and one month without doing anything is pretty new to me. I hope you'll find ......   reply

I'm asian, and my girlfriend is white. I grew up in a very religious Christian family (+ asian culture) so I really don't mind religion, but it went too "extreme" for me so I'm kind of a believer for, but I don't really practice anymore. And my actual girlfriend is agnostic. Her family is christian (like, they low-key believe but don't practice) bu......   reply

Mine is to lose the ability to use my hands or to become deaf. You don't know how scary it would be for a musician to become unable to play music or worse, to not be able to listen to music.   reply

Hello, I don't know how old you are but I think that you're approximately my age (19-ish) so first advice : don't lose hope. You prabably will get disappointed again in love (it's not reassuring at all, I'm sorry I'm just too honest) because that's love : it hurts. But in the end, when you find the one it's gonna be worth it. So, sorry to disappoin......   reply

I tried to read BL and in general, I'm just not interested at all. The best BL was honestly very good, with a real story etc but I didn't got obsessed with it like I do with yuri. But I have to admit I kind of hate BL because of how unrealistic it is and how fujoshis and fudanshis get too crazy about it, shipping people irl and stuff. I think that ......   1 reply

My friends usually use a shorter version of my name like "Lu", they also call me Poulpy (because I'm a poulpe/octopus lover). Sometimes they call me Karma because they know I'm rancorous. And a friend of mine often calls me God or Satan, depending on the context, as a joke because I'm scary, which I respond by saying something like "I know, you can......   1 reply