JJD's answer (8)

As an older guy I can only say, please do everything in your own time and do it only when you feel it's right for you! There is no shame in being 'closet' nor is there an Obligation to come-out to anyone. It is totally OK to lie if you don't want to tell that you're gay. That includes friends as well as family members. If they love you, they don't......   1 reply

I'm an old guy but I remember well when I was Young and had the same thoughts. Let me tell you, I regret not having acted as you want to act now. My youth was full of opportunities not taken... So do it! When it comes to love and sex, regretting having acted is better than regretting not having acted.   reply

Hi y'all! Male yaoi fan here, just turned 49, gay, chemical engineer, with a husband and no kids. Competetive swimmer and thus a huge fan of FREE! I was just amazed to see how many non-teens are around here :D That makes it less awkward to confess that I am reading manga. My infatuation with comics, manga and anime in general is most probably cause......   4 reply

Ready too much yaoi, maybe? :D BL is Fantasy! Sure, it would be nice if more People would think the same way. But reality is different. Even in 'advanced' societies all Things out of the (percieved) norm are still discriminated. That is imo a human trait or an instinct inherent to everyone - maybe it's in the DNA. Humans are striving for acceptan......   reply

For me 'vanilla' means slow, meaningful lovemaking without any Major kinks and acrobatics :D Just fuck around passionately and enjoying being together with someone, feeling the other body. It's gentler sex with lots of gentle kissing. Non-vanilla I would consider more frantic, more forceful with kinky things involved. Hard kissing, grabbing, moving......   reply

Ok, you asked for some mellow stuff, but the persons who answered yet are talking serious porn - so be warned :D Helix is fu**ing nice, but I like Staxus better - they have hot guys during REAL hardcore! Myself I often go to xhamster.com where you can easily find EVERYTHING that happens under the sun. The Asian section is quite nice, but as far as ......   reply

If you ask me, yaoi with hot scenes is quality porn. There is a story and the visuals can be even better. So, to answer your question, YES, I'm getting wet and getting off from yaoi :D http://pic1.mangago.me/r/essay/cb/co_/294266_2824121.jpg   2 reply

The unexpected graphic depiction of gay sex turned me on more than 'real life' porn. Having a crush for Asian men, the view of slim bodies and wetness all made me instantly hard! It was (and is) a dream come true...   reply