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If you are LGBT+, how did you find out and how have you been getting on since?
I'm currently 16 and a closet* homosexual. I sometimes felt isolated since I don't know anyone else who is LGBT+ so i'm curious about hearing your little stories
I found out that I was gay when I was about 12. At the time I watched a lot of pornography and I realised that I began to care less and less about the female in the video and focused on the males. A year or so later (when I started caring about this sort of stuff) I decided I was asexual, but really I was putting of believing I was gay so I decided I was definitively gay when I was 15. I say im a closet homosexual but 2 or 3 people know I'm gay, but this is from me dropping hints or making jokes that suggest i'm gay, I have never gone and said "Im Gay"
Please tell me your stories, i'm interested in how other people have done things!
As an older guy I can only say, please do everything in your own time and do it only when you feel it's right for you!
There is no shame in being 'closet' nor is there an Obligation to come-out to anyone. It is totally OK to lie if you don't want to tell that you're gay. That includes friends as well as family members. If they love you, they don't...... 1 reply