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Hello still willing to join in, i'd prefer to be earlier but not super early -- like early middle or something. I also think with mangago its hard to keep track of everyone (i mean you just got banned ), dc or a temp chat would be good. I don't really mind on some other platform either like gmail or socmed since i have throwaway accs. Shared gdrive......   2 reply

If it's about "responsibility" then it's overwhelm because of not wanting to make mistakes or perfectionism. Overly focusing on results and perfectionism zaps any form of motivation. It's about a mindset change. But in general for tasks it's not so much about motivation but being able to sit with the discomfort. Breaking tasks down to little pieces......   reply

Well, i've been there and felt similar. Looking at it now, thinking like this was what ruined me. Not to make light of what you're feeling or going through--just, being in your mind a lot can be all-consuming. Take a few minutes of your time everyday to let go of any burdens or baggage, where you're just...Allowed. Where you don't have to be someon......   1 reply

Protective sigils / protection tattoos. Bahaha I'm not a tattoo person (i get bored and it's painful) but i find the yankee full back tattoos / thai tattoos cool   reply

Hmmm "fighting to maintain comfort of capitalism" feels off. I mean, yes, everyone likes and pursues comfort to some level, and comfort is good to an extent. But it's an overly simplified reason. I think what millionaires and leadership level systems have done a good job with eroding society using capitalism is magnifying disparity and privilege......   reply

Feelings need the time to be acknowledged, tended to--to let go and release. It's not a very linear process. Be present for the feelings that come up; it's okay to still have feelings. If you have a way to cope and vent it helps, like writing. In the meantime, minimize the space they take up in your life. Don't check their socials, photos, messages......   reply

Haha I'm not into realism but there's nothing much to say about the fundamentals other than continuous practice. Like what the other comment said there's no shortcut and with practice you don't aim to get it perfect -- i'd say the best mindset to approach it is to be bold and experiment. So don't worry about it being ugly. Also in terms of improvin......   reply

I have a lot but the most intense and "stimulating" experience was when I took a shower in the middle of the night. It was about 1 AM or so, and I have moments where I'm delaying things that need to be done. It's just that dressing up happened to be what I was delaying. I was super focused on this webnovel and so I only had my underwear on and I la......   1 reply

Raisin   reply

Lowk highk i want this as a manga/webtoon/manhwa/novel where an invisible man/protagonist/god intrudes every scene to ask these chicken soup questions as they do the deed   1 reply

It depends on your goals, habits and circumstances. If you have any health complications, those takes priority in planning your diet and exercise (PCOS, high BP, obesity, diabetes, etc.)--search it up. If planning everything is overwhelming, just start with what's achievable now. Doesn't have to be perfect. When it comes to meal prep on a low budge......   reply

You don't really receive it; its personal. Got into spirituality and life's been more fulfilling. Not because its woo woo, but just doing the inner work. Not a recommendation btw, but anything that helps you process and do the same thing to go inward, therapy, journal, art, exercise, do it. So many of the really important things and questions get b......   reply

Not sure what you mean (like why sadistic beauty lmao)...do you mean like a jaded or realistic perspective of reality?   1 reply

Honestly more surprised you accepted her back lol. But i've never really pondered on a specific sign -- in dislike specifically. Ig it's in body language, tone, expression and in avoidance/reluctance combined.   reply

1. System cheats / Golden Finger system / Exclusive game or level up system - otherworldly device that simplifies and artificially forces an easy advantage / skill building, especially when it's deus ex machina or some special favor exclusive to the protagonist. I really hate system mechanics because it's inherently wish fulfillment aura farming ......   reply