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age gap romances especially those where the older character watches the younger character grow as years go by and they seem to have a familial bond.. its just weird bc of the age gap and lowkey feels incestuous (I don't hate age gaps when its not weird )   2 reply

genuinely how does one come up with this   reply

Justice for switches :p   3 reply

I want to see more slow burn romances like it has to actually burnnn and for it to not focus on sexual attraction or be sexual at all. I'm tired of seeing all sex and only physical attraction like where's the romance and pining at smh..   2 reply

This is a bit silly and might be a chronically online take but since we're talking about things most of us don't even realise is kinda misogynistic...Calling men with more 'feminine' traits malewife? or mothers? Like they'd still be a father even if they're more domestic right or househusbands. It's not like we see women get called female husband o......   1 reply

That's such a sucky situation I'm so sorry,, but I'll say it's not your responsibility to fix things because you did the right thing and you were looking out for her and it was unreasonable for her to react like that ..especially when you sounded compassionate rather than outright telling her to break up with him it's not like you were shaming her ......   reply

I've probably answered this question before and my answer's still the same.. when lesbian coded characters are shipped with men   reply

Traumatic events being brushed off as if nothing happened it was just a little drama to add shock value and is then left unaddressed. It's so lameeeeee I hate repetitive shit too. I also hate when background characters are underutilised in stories.. Like it's okay to have the main characters connect with more people than the main romantic interest ......   2 reply

People that only care abt the sex scenes commenting under shounen ai mangas kinda annoys me ig its bc for me personally sex scenes are boring and i just scroll through so I prefer reading gl or bl with fluff and plot more than anything else so seeing people only read stuff for that instead of appreciating the story and characters is just a bit ann......   3 reply

I think homophobes are just being more vocal now at least that's the case with my country.. Before it used to be a hushed taboo topic but the more exposure lgbtq matters get the more louder homophobes opposes it. There are more people growing aware and accepting queer identities but homophobes are pushing back trying to suppress that. Especially c......   1 reply

It is fucking transphobic and I don’t think you can have a say in this unless you’re trans yourself (actually no, even if you were trans you can’t have a say in it bc u don’t represent the whole community and the struggles they go through especially with bs like this) and I can’t believe you slipped the t slur like it’s nothing. Having ......   reply

Swear I'm gonna crash out if I start seeing people who only watched the live action claiming to be orv fans.. like bro ur not gnna be one of us   reply

People hating on crackships or yk crossover ships like god forbid someone have some fun... it doesn't rlly have to make sense shipping is all ab having fun. ALSO people who hate on ships just because they have a canon love interest like IDCCCC I'll ship whoever the fuck I want it's not like i'm hating on the canon pair just because I prefer another......   1 reply

I think she’s on the list for other reasons..? I’ve seen people get disappointed in her for wearing blood diamonds as they are manufactured by the exploitation of the Congolese people. Plus them attending the Metgala itself was seen problematic bc the event was just rich ppl spending a shit ton of money on a stupid costume party and it showed h......   4 reply

I hate being queer in a small homophobic country. It feels so isolating when everyone around you is either straight or in heterosexual relationships and you can't relate to anyone at all. I'm tired of seeking out for community online when all I wish for is to have one irl or at the very least another person who's like me. I crave being in a relatio......   1 reply

I’m terrible at approaching people which pushed me into being a loner. I used to be pretty extroverted and now I’m the total opposite lmao. Kinda ironic ain’t it. Wish I could go back to the way I was but my anxiety issues really said no- My other confession would be that I have a major inferiority complex. My self esteem plummeted to the b......   3 reply

Hii i'm somberly and when I was 9 or 10 I was SA'ed by a family friend and my relative threatened to run him over but turns out he had a victim of his own considering he was sexually abusing another relative for years (I was unaware and she was also a child) so that was hypocritical as fuck. Oh and my grandma still continued to meet the old man who......   1 reply