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How do you guys get yourself up and start doing things?
Like, how do you keep the ball rolling when you want to do anything but. Do you have a goal you work towards? Expectations? Or being blessed with being able to do things without needing to think about it.
I personally find it really hard to get myself started and doing something. It's my kryptonite. But once I start doing it, it gets easier. But even knowing this, I still struggle to get myself moving forward.
What do you do?
Like, how do you keep the ball rolling when you want to do anything but. Do you have a goal you work towards? Expectations? Or being blessed with being able to do things without needing to think about it.
I personally find it really hard to get myself started and doing something. It's my kryptonite. But once I start doing it, it gets easier. But even knowing this, I still struggle to get myself moving forward.
What do you do?
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I can never find anyone with the same aversion
I don't mind reading it, but porn and the thought of sex weirds me out. Maybe because of how dramatised it is, like all porn videos are and also how it's written in books makes me VERY uncomfortable and honestly grosses me out.
I'm not against sex or people having it, I know it's normal thing. And I don't idolise it or think it's the end all, be all of life, but the majority (to me) thinks and acts this way. But when I think about or bring up my diversion to it (or just that in my head it's such an unnatural thing whether it's the pornified or sensual activity that it is), people kind of act like I'm broken or bizarre. And I'm not conservative or anything like that, and my friends talk about their sexual experiences to me all the time, but that doesn't make me uncomfortable (which is even more confusing).
Don't get me wrong, my idea of sex is a fun and enjoyable activity with whomever you choose, but it's so hard to find sexual content that isn't an overdramatic seventeen year old boys wet dream.
And even then, my fun thing my imagination can't get passed whenever I watch a movie or TV show with sex scenes (since I find porn videos super gross and avoid it like the plague), I can't just watch two people having sex. It's two people having sex, the camera, and twenty camera crew standing in a studio.
Asexuallity is probably my explanation, but I don't know anyone that has similar thoughts and views on sex that aren't conservative.
Please, I need to know I'm not the only one
I don't mind reading it, but porn and the thought of sex weirds me out. Maybe because of how dramatised it is, like all porn videos are and also how it's written in books makes me VERY uncomfortable and honestly grosses me out.
I'm not against sex or people having it, I know it's normal thing. And I don't idolise it or think it's the end all, be all of life, but the majority (to me) thinks and acts this way. But when I think about or bring up my diversion to it (or just that in my head it's such an unnatural thing whether it's the pornified or sensual activity that it is), people kind of act like I'm broken or bizarre. And I'm not conservative or anything like that, and my friends talk about their sexual experiences to me all the time, but that doesn't make me uncomfortable (which is even more confusing).
Don't get me wrong, my idea of sex is a fun and enjoyable activity with whomever you choose, but it's so hard to find sexual content that isn't an overdramatic seventeen year old boys wet dream.
And even then, my fun thing my imagination can't get passed whenever I watch a movie or TV show with sex scenes (since I find porn videos super gross and avoid it like the plague), I can't just watch two people having sex. It's two people having sex, the camera, and twenty camera crew standing in a studio.
Asexuallity is probably my explanation, but I don't know anyone that has similar thoughts and views on sex that aren't conservative.
Please, I need to know I'm not the only one