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I don't get it how does this help?? Who does this help? Do you just want to feel like you're morally superior? Like ok let's say best case scenario they get blocked here now that uve put them on a nice list for having pedo thoughts for reading shota or whatever. What does that accomplish? You hope they feel sad for having bad thoughts and like.........   11 reply

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a lot of ppl here are very young. What we don't talk about often is how when you're in puberty or growing out of puberty you are just very self-conscious and at the same time not very "self-aware". I think this applies to many people regardless of age, but online it is a lot more obvious because you're not really talking with real people who feel ......   4 reply

OOF let me take the list out: 1) Rape to romance. I mean sometimes I can leave my brain out of it and let it go, but most of the time it's not handled well. Like.. I hate when the seme rapes the uke but then for us to like him he has someone do something worse to the uke to make us think the seme is better by comparison. Like what kinda bs is that......   1 reply

girl idfk I'm gay and I read yaoi riddle me that   1 reply

Is it really necessary to put the people you are attracted to in a box? It only makes things more difficult and complicated imho. Just fuck who you want to fuck and love who you want to love. Sexuality is a complicated matter by itself, I think that at the end of it by trying to give short answers to questions such as "who am I attracted to?" it ju......   8 reply

Kind of into this hate club tbh hehehe This is why I dropped BJ Alex and a man like you etc I don't mind manga like Killing Stalking or Painter of the night, because they don't excuse or romanticize the toxicity and abuse (tho Painter of the night is getting weird there in those terms bitch I SEE YOU) I just feel like romanticized rape is such a ......   3 reply

My number one enemy is like rapey plots where the mangaka makes up flimsy excuses for why the seme (usually) didn't mean it and it was totally ok actually. AND THE EXCUSES ARE AS THIN AS PAPER GIRL. Either write an edgy rapey plot or idk an absurd plot that understands what it's doing OR DON'T don't be wishywashy about it and make it rapey and als......   reply

I'm so out of it I thought you meant like package shipping lol kill me   1 reply

I mean I'd wager 95% of shounen and seinen action manga writers have never even breathed next to a woman and have very weird/no ideas of what women could possibly be like which tends to make a lot of female characters weird by extension. And from that 5% like 2% are the women who write shounen and seinen lol (like FMA or D. Gray Man) and they can b......   reply

Uuuuhm... since when are queer women saying this... like ever? Weird thing to gatekeep about and if any queer binary leaning or not femme said this that's... a pretty twisted mentality. Historically speaking shounen ai is another thing altogether but yaoi is clearly a straight women industry for one I mean older yaoi used to just be the notion of ......   1 reply

I try to immediately delete them from my brain so I forget most, but Jinx and Love Jinx are a good disaster duet lol they both suffer from insufferable semes (and in Jinx dude literally threatens violence unless he fucks the bottom which... is a choice. If I was the bottom I'd be like well grandma you've lived long enough RIP) who have TINY TWINK H......   1 reply

Interesting perspective, throwing the "cultural appropriation" comment aside which I'm pretty sure was more that you couldn't express what you meant well, I do partially agree with what you are saying. Yaoi and yuri many times fetishize gay relationships and don't really have situations coherent with reality. Heteros tend to fetishize homosexual r......   reply

I think it should be de-stigmatized (not the act, the people). Now before you come at me with pitchforks, what I mean is that people hate pedophiles so unanimously it's like the ONE group of people everyone hates no matter what side of the political spectrum you are. It's like... the people we can all unite by hating lol. Even white supremacists lo......   2 reply

I'm a second gen kpop fan hehe. I used to be a hardcore SHINee fan in highschool and was also really into JYJ's/TVXQ's Jaejoong solo stuff. Oh and Brown Eyed Girls and IU (I was a huge Gae In stan damn the memories). Also BigBang especially TOP (before the shitshow lol) I was so into the scene I knew everything about every group that came out and a......   reply

when I made a friend while being here and after a year of exchanging messages on mangago I added her on fb and found out she's a holocaust denier and flat earther ;___: I no longer trust fujoshi aaaaaaaaaa   reply

can't answer about sex between male bodies but anal sex in general sure thing. So first of all, no, there is no "door to be opened" in a biological sort of way. Apart from that I guess... shit varies and is complicated. Hmmm. Maybe I shouldn't use the word "shit" like this... It varies accordingly to a person's butthole, how nervous they are (mea......   reply

I'm bi but I always wondered what makes me more into yaoi than yuri... I recently thought that the answer is that yaoi has more of a history and culture around it and yuri is sometimes too.... dramatic..? Like, the ones written by women I mean. Or maybe I just have higher standards with stories with women in them.. Shitty yaoi is in abundance but i......   1 reply

We are living in the era of the easily butthurt, which is interesting in the yaoi community because somehow it leads to people being less open minded about their shit. Yaoi (not BL or early shounen ai, just straight up yaoi) used to be fiction that only had the "good bits" of what shounen ai didn't have, and used to be stories about basically STRA......   3 reply