haven't had any for a while and lately I keep on having sex in my dreams. MY BRAIN IS TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING. But I can't do empty sex, sorry body and brain. Don't rush me Σ(っ°Д °;)っ I'll read yaoi instead for now TT__TT pls forgive me and let my dreams be about something else for a change ~ 1 reply
I read every single thing Setona Mizushiro had written/drawn, one of them being Kyuuso Wa Cheese No Yume O Miru. Set up my standards pretty high from the beginning if you ask me. A few months after that I started descending into this rotten world ~ lol ╮(￣▽￣)╭ 5 reply
if you feel like you spend too much time on it then try to take a step back from it maybe? Idk if it's a matter of addiction but I think you should do what feels right for you specifically.
I tend to read more yaoi when I feel overworked or overwhelmed with life, so I get what you mean. It's def a sort of escapism brain-rot vibe that helps turn y...... reply
oof that's tricky.
losing weight is actually much harder than ud think from how hostile ppl are to those who are overweight. Your body is made to maintain as much fat and muscle as possible, so if you gain weight your body kinda really wants to keep it and will try to at all costs.
This is why it is commonly known that most diets don't work in th...... 2 reply
a lot of ppl here are very young. What we don't talk about often is how when you're in puberty or growing out of puberty you are just very self-conscious and at the same time not very "self-aware".
I think this applies to many people regardless of age, but online it is a lot more obvious because you're not really talking with real people who feel ...... 4 reply
your brain is still developing and will continue to develop for quite a few more years. Keep that in mind when you do something you end up feeling guilty about, or when people act unempathetically to you. Empathy is one of the last things humans develop in there. Basically, learn to forgive yourself and others, of course without avoiding taking res...... reply
I don't mean tropes or like problematic stuff, more like common details that just get to you.
Mine is definitely when characters leave food unfinished or throw away food. Omg it gets to me so bad it's ridiculous hahaha Like, you just ordered that coffee FUCKIN DRINK IT BEFORE YOU LEAVE THE CAFE ARE YOU RICH OR SOMETHING TO BE ORDERING THINGS FOR NO REASON OR WHAT
I was re-reading Love Tractor cause it's on sale on lezhin and the mc dumped a bunch of nice food in the sink cause he got upset by a phonecall and I think I popped a vein lol JUST PUT IT IN THE FRIDGE AND EAT IT LATER THESE VEGGIES DIDN'T DIE FOR U TO PLUNGE THEM OUT OF YOUR SINK WHEN IT CLOGS UP IN A MONTH (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Anyone else non monogamous here?? What's your opinion on polyamory? Do you support kitchen table polyamory or do you also think that having separate partners who never meet and you have different priorities for also counts? (parallel polyamory) What about open relationships?
To anyone monogamous, what's your image of polyamory, or would you ever consider it?
I don't identify as polyamorous but I'm no stickler for labels. I just say I'm not monogamous. I don't have superficial relationships either, I just have multiple ones at the same time, sometimes long term sometimes short term. Sometimes they know each other sometimes they never meet. I just look at how I'm attracted to people and what I want to give to them individually, if that makes sense. I feel that love is a spectrum.
How do you guys feel about jealousy? I've been thinking about that emotion lately. Not in the sense that I'm jealous often, just that I find the types of situations that make me jealous interesting, and how it usually has to do with me than the other person.
Like, if I'm jealous, it's not because I hate looking at someone I love being with someone else or them talking about someone else they love, but under particular circumstances if we don't have good communication I get insecure that they might leave me for the other person, and that's what triggers my jealousy. I just have these thoughts: "what if they prefer them over me?" and then, when I realize they choose to be with me because they want to, and that person is a completely different person from me so what I'm thinking doesn't make sense, my jealousy goes away!
But Idk, it's very interesting, whenever I feel jealous. I've been having these jealous moments lately.
Just things I've been thinking about lately that I wanted to share and hear how others feel about them. Any thoughts?
