Cleopatra's answer page 4 (72)

first of all, I'm assuming you're straight? Beauty is a subjective thing. Sure, there are some people who you could call beautiful in a more broad, universal sense, but they are most likely seen as beautiful because they are so according to their culture and time period. Nowadays in the West we have a lot of different beauty standards, we have the......   reply

I like to think I lost mine officially at 21 but my "first time" was at 15. At 21 I just did it with someone I cared about (not in a romantic but in a friendly-but-also-they-are-attractive-and-single way) and it felt like I understood sex more then. I think my previous experience served me well into understanding myself so I don't regret it but it ......   reply

I have a chronic illness so Id probably like to be the one to stay at home, however I'd rather not be completely jobless, just have work part time and my own projects here and there I'd just rather not have to work fulltime in my ideal living scenario. Actually a lot of people think that staying at home is easier than working but that is actually ......   reply

Kamiya Hiroshi has stolen my heart for eternity through non BL roles like Zetsubou sensei and Ichinomiya Kou/Recruit, but I like him for sasoi/queen uke roles (example: Levi from SnK. I MEAN!!) He was also great in Doukyuusei as the seme though. Sakurai Takahiro is very good at portraying both seme and uke roles so hands down respect. For seme role......   reply

I don't trust women who say they don't masturbate. Who knows what else they lie about... >__> (jk there's plenty of people with less of a sex drive or asexual who are not into it who don't do it some women though do lie about it for weirdly prudish reasons just sayin')   5 reply

I mean yeah of course it's super fucked up that 10 year olds are reading this shit but I mean, you can't do anything about that. Pornography is online for free, which yaoi is technically a part of, you can't just stop kids from reading this. You can only make an effort to educate. Also, it's not their fault that the rapey and toxic stuff is still ......   reply

idk lol... mildly racist comments or jokes? Or just discriminatory related things. Sometimes in the country that I live in currently, because I'm Greek rude people might ask how come I can afford to live here if I'm poor (because Greek people are poor GET IT? *JOKE OF THE YEAR AWARD GOES TO..!*), or some people joke that I can be here because their......   4 reply

Honestly this speaks a lot to a lot of frustrations I have with the whole of the BL genre as well. 1) That's usually angsty teenagers who make up hyberboles because they fantasize about what having sex with a penis and a prostate feels like, not being serious, but honestly I can completely understand how that feels objectifying and fetishizing to y......   3 reply

boy you are still in High School you have a long time ahead of yourself to figure it out. Sometimes we forget that we might use words to describe feelings, concepts, ideas and things but that all of those came before the words themselves. Language is for us to understand the world better. Your sexuality is something complicated and at the same tim......   reply

21 year old female Greek Fine Art Student, I live and study in the Netherlands right now and used to study Fashion. Been reading yaoi specifically and religiously (well, not anymore but I get my weekly dose every weekend) for the past 4-5 years and I've been into manga, visual novels anime and all that jazz for give and take 8-9 years. It's been f......   1 reply

Why be single or taken when you can be poly and then there's no difference whoooops I used to have commitment issues but now I've gotten so much better with intimacy by understanding that you can love many people at once in different ways/levels and you can't own everyone and no one owns you, it makes you be a lot more honest with those you love. ......   reply