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I'm a really vanilla, romantic, goofy person when it comes to love, so I dislike quite a bit of things in yaoi. -rape-turned-love tropes (you know the ones) -bdsm -sadism (like really, you like being an asshole to your lover? honey, no) -ukes that look like females (I read yaoi for a reason, man on man, if I wanted girl on man action I would've go......   1 reply

mine are: the rape=love trope; falling in love too quickly, like next chapter quick; when the seme likes to make the uke cry; the seme thinks everyone wants to date the uke and won't let him have friends; extremely possessive semes in general; girl looking ukes, not just a little feminine, like "could pass as a girl no problem" feminine (I came he......   3 reply

i'm really vanilla, so most kinky things are an automatic no-go for me. but more specific stuff would be: little to no foreplay/too quick preparations (foreplay is literally the best part to me and also a very important element to sex). top lacks any expression or sign that he's just as a mess as the bottom (who want to have sex with someone having......   1 reply

nah, don't listen to the jerks here, you're perfectly fine. there's nothing wrong with liking fictional incest. anything you like in fiction has no effect on who you are irl unless you directly act on it. it's basic psychology.   2 reply

- rape in general doesn't bother me IF it's not done in a 'sexy' way and the seme isn't the one doing it. - dumb ukes, like REALLY dumb. can't think for themselves dumb. - when the couple falls in love after two pages and no development. - POSSESSIVE SEMES. "you can't look or talk to anyone else or else I'll be jealous" types piss me off. - stoic s......   1 reply

well, i'm not gonna talk about the traumas i bring up in therapy, but the Run the Gauntlet challenge scarred me pretty bad. i was like 13 at the time and an even bigger dumbass than i am now. at least i got all the way to the end and beat it (but at what cost?)   reply

no, honestly it makes me kind of sick when I read a yaoi and the rape is romanticized like it's normal. my heart hurts for the character enduring it and I feel angry at the one who committed it. that being said, if you do enjoy reading those types of stories, then more power to you. though I do get a bit grossed out when I comments like "YES RAPE M......   2 reply

I have a hate/love relationship with the "uke gets bullied/attacked and the seme saves him" trope. like, I want to be like "ugh this is so cliche" because it IS; but, that shit is my oxygen at the same time. ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ   reply

1) well, I don't wish I was a gay man because.... I just don't. I wish I was prettier and slimmer and didn't have issues, but I don't wish I was a gay guy. 2) I'd say it's because when people read BL, they want two guys that look like... well, masculine. it's more attractive to them if they look like two guys rather than a guy and a girl. I know t......   reply

totes an uke, I like my cuddles and being cared for; but my seme would have to be a doting/romantic type, because I don't play that sadistic, possessive stuff. try and tell ME what I can and can't do, I will fight you (╯°Д °)╯╧╧   reply

King’s Maker. [SPOLIERS AHEAD] god, when Dandelion died I had to hold back tears, my heart hurt for like two days, he deserved so much better and I’m still salty about it. the king deserved a much more brutal death imo, but at least my pure baby is avenged.   1 reply

heya! well, my name's Chris, I'm all woman, from the US, and my favorite genres would have to be horror, yaoi, and supernatural. I'm also a complete nerd irl, so there's that ╮(￣▽￣)╭   1 reply