gogr _they/them_'s answer (11)

they/them is a neutral term and you can use it when you don't know the pronouns of the person you're referring to, but once you know they're pronouns you should use them. Ofc it seems like you did nothing wrong since you didn't know them so it's fine, you couldn't know they used neopronouns.   reply

Hi im a lesbian person and I'll juste answer the "Why do you personally read yaoi and shounein ai" because i don't feel like i should actually answer the other ones. In my case i juste read yaoi as much as i read yuri or straight mangas etc. On this website it's easier to find yaoi and shounein ai so I'll just read the ones that i think are inte......   reply

You probably already know this song but anyway https://youtu.be/uAOR6ib95kQ   1 reply