Firstly, I believe in freedom of expression. Manga and Yaoi is just that (it's ART, NOT RL!) so anyone who is interested in shaming someone else for their kinks can just fuck right off.
My own put offs in Yaoi…
- Underage for obvious reasons
- When it's a slice of life, with college, kids etc is hella boring
- When the Uke has a small D, is fe...... reply
1)when the uke is too feminine.(another reason i like delinquent ukes/ ukes who aren't afraid to put up a fight.)
2) threesomes (although the sex scenes are usually top tier) because it usually ends up in a love triangle which I'm not a big fan of.
3)really stupid/idotic ukes or semes. idk man like its just not appealing because they could just b...... 1 reply
Not enough prep. Theres even stories where it's the uke's first time but the seme doesnt give him enough prep. How does it magically go in without the uke screaming in pain?? :'( when I read scenes like this all I'm thinking about is that his dck must be really small for it not to hurt with only 5 minutes of prep reply
I hate love triangles, rape, incest, abusive seme/uke, really feminized ukes, when they have glasses ( doesn't bother me that much but Id rather prefer them to not have glasses) cheating, nipple play, weird sex talk like "I wanna spread your ass wide" shit like that, big age gaps ( 6 or 7 isn't bad but more than one is a no) no consent, uke/seme fl...... reply
When they're young (in high school or smth), author makes the man's breast extra big (like wtf that's not normal) and when they clearly hate it (though that's like everything, yaoi are usually rape shlt lol). 1 reply
When the author makes the ukes super feminine looking and the seme super manly looking. I'm talking about like drastic height differences or like how the ukes will have bigger, softer features and the seems will have more narrow structured features some examples would be Junjou Romantica and The Devils temptation. It's not a super huge turn off to ...... 1 reply
Ir depends on my mindset going into the story. If I know it's just a random hardcore porn, I don't mind rape at all. If it actually has a plot, rape is a big turn off. Pedophilia and incest always gross me out tho reply
I drop any BL when the seme cheats or is still in contact with their past lovers. I also drop any BL where the uke is expressionless. I like it when the expressionless, quiet type is on top, so when I see the reverse I recoil. It’s why I can’t read Kuroko’s Basketball doujinshi. reply
When a body part get torn off, broken, etc. and they get raped and mindfucked. Plus omegaverse. There are only a few I like but even while I read them I don't like parts of it. Only one hasn't disappointed me and I'm currently reading it so hopefully it stays that way. 1 reply
I have 3 things absolutely hate in yaoi 1)rape its fucked up no matter how you spin it to look okay 2)misunderstandings it frustrates me to no end esp if it goes on for several chapters it makes me want to slap the characters 3)love triangles its very frustrating when they just can't make up their damn minds 1 reply
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