NekuChan's Things

So, I'm learning japanese and I don't think I'm really progressing much. So, I think it would be the most suitable option to get a japanese penpal who could help me and just support me during my struggles to cope with the language. I've on many occasions noticed posts on here about how someone has gotten a penpal, but the one thing I never uncovered is how? How and where does one get a penpal? Is there a site where I could leave like a post or something?
I have tried HelloTalk and nobody responded to me so I'm pretty much hopeless at the moment. Any help is really appreciated, thank you! ;;

I have read Yaoi manga and seen some scenes in Anime, but I have never actually watched actual gay porn and so I need good suggestions to start me off. You know what, it can even be a korean drama, just something which gives me delicious smexy scenes with pretty bois. I'm also wondering if there is any Yaoi hentai out there, I'd love to watch some 'cause I'm thirsty like that lol (๑꒪▿꒪)*

For me it's
-over-clingy girls
And
-lack of communication > resulting in a misunderstanding > possibly resulting in a fight/break-up (╬￣皿￣)凸

I have drawn Suzalulu (pfff more like attempted to, I didn't have much skill at drawing back then), OliLen and Phan. Oh god the Phan one was so horrible to draw. Looked like Light Yagami had slept with Phil lol
Oh well, at least had a good laugh out of it XD

I had like this really weird dream about Black Butler.... I was in a construction site and Ciel had gotten stuck like in this nearby tunnel (I DON'T KNOW HOW HE'S NOT THAT FAT XD) then I look up and Sebastian is on a skyscraper (o_O) and then he jumps down and saves Ciel and then I dunno what happened but suddenly we're in a mirrorhouse or something and the dream ends there.. When I woke up I was like "What the actual fuck just happened...." XD I was really disappointed tho, I wanted it to continue, even if it looked like I was on LSD lol